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And hopefully they don't stick to the program, it never makes for good sex.
@ 3 - She should also prepare for the opposite: what if they both freak out and don't want anything to do with each other?
But I hope for the LW that they all respect the golden rule of threesomes, that is, not to forget that there are three people involved, and that all three deserve attentiion.
Oh, perhaps don't be so organizing, just let the moment do the talking.
Yes, you did.
While trying to do good, LW has made projected too much of her own needs onto her friends' fantasies. Instead, how about everyone hangout one evening with a bottle of wine, and just talk about their what their MFM fantasies are, with everyone listening to what the others have to say. Then when that evening comes to have that threesome, relax and do those things that everyone thought were hot, without following any particular script.
2 things
1) A threesome where it isn't about male\male contact is usually called MFM, not MMF. I'm sure you could see the idea behind naming.
2) Even if they don't focus on MM contact, i'm sure they both had sex with a woman and therefore have a pretty solid idea how that goes, so what they do need figuring out is MM sex.
My 2 cents about the letter itself - MMF threesomes work better when at least one of the guys has some experience in guy sex. There are pitfalls, and to discover them all inone night isn't the best way.
For instance - i'd recomment having some cialis on hand. It's pretty clear the guy LW is talking about didn't have any kind of group sex before, so there's no telling how his body will react to that (new stimuli, guy attention, onlookers). And i've seen enough examples of perfectly willing partners who had unexpected failures in that department because of novelty and anxiety. Usually getting to know each other better solved the problem, but while they do, there's no shame in getting some boner-insurance. A lot of swingers use it, actually.
"They are both open to exploring and experiencing being with a man for the first time and all that it will entail; kissing, mutual oral sex, and trying to both be tops and bottoms for anal. "
That's also why she's calling it an "MMF threesome," not an "MFM threesome." Your fantasies are not everyone's.
Which, by all three of our accounts, was well worth the wait.
Cialis gives me hours of violent heaving hiccups. and a boner. yah! YMMV.
See, I would think that boner pills would be useful in a LTR where you want to mix it up a bit so that PiV/PiA is on the table at least some of the time, or in porn where a boner is absolutely required all the time.
But in a threesome where you’re going to be hanging out with and exploring nice people? There's so much else going on that the presence or absence of boners would seem to me to be a fairly minor detail. Especially if the encounter is framed as being the first in a series.
Totally agree with you if they do decide to take a "let's see what happens" approach rather than an "I must fuck a man in the ass before I die in a month's time" approach.
Yes. Yes: Stop and take a deep breath. Just breathe. Maybe smoke a joint or something, and chill the fuck out for a minute before going over the minute-by-minute script again. Take a breather, and just chill the fuck out buddy.
Then go ahead and have the threesome(s). But relax a little first.
Which is why she is telling them basically to prepare their bodies in the way SHE wants it so they can do things SHE wants to see/do.
Crikey. Slow your roll, lady.
This isn't the first time i'm explaining this to a woman, but yes, this is one of the situations people use boner pills. Why - because boner does not mean you are horny. I have mad boners when i'm sleep-deprived. I can't drive without one, for some reason, but i don't like car sex at all. And vice versa - no boner does not mean you are not horny\not willing. Anxiety gets the best of us, sadly. Especially the first times.
Good suggestion @28, much better than them just doing themselves.
Can I add pegging-spitroast to their agenda? Hahaha.
I don't brush or combs my pubic hair like I do the hair on my head each morning. Therefore, hairs that are about to come out - 1 or 2 a day - don't get that final slight tug. Until things get vigorous in bed. So, pre-funtimes, I'll gently pull my fingers through and that will dislodge, without any pain, really without any sensation at all, other than the gentle tugging, 6-10 hairs. Hairs that I theorize would otherwise have dislodged during sex and ended up as floss or cause me to clear my throat.
That just always seem like good bed-ettique to me, but I have no idea if other non-luekemia patients practice it.
I'm not that limber.
I was just talking generally, Fan. Responding to Chaucer@26's apparent freak out about a few pubes in his teeth.
Just relax a little with the over planning, then I'm sure whatever occurs with the three of you will be an authentic encounter, even if all the to do boxes aren't ticked.
A few thousand men, Ricardo?
That is impressive.
The guys sound like Ken dolls for her to manipulate and move around for her enjoyment, never mind theirs!