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If BITE is serious, he'll have one ready for his next partner!
If you want to jump into your local kink scene, fetlife.com will give you much better access. Of course, you should go to some meet-ups and try to meet people in person as friends before you start sending out messages to ladies in the area asking them to peg you.
You'll have better luck with craigslist - admittedly, probably not much luck, but at least it's free.
Get out and meet women in the real world, it's your only hope.
Good suggestion.
Which is kind of sad. Cause there's a lot of guys into vanilla sex who really are GGG but don't do pegging or anal.
Wonder why that is ...
Wait?!? "no prostate sensitivity" is really a thing? Christ, get me a plastic bracelet, a colored ribbon, something to support the cause of ending this horribly limiting condition.
I mean, I understand why they'd take one for the team for the top's sake. But wow, so tragic.
In my experience, Adult Friend Finder is vastly overwhelmed by men, but almost all the guys on there are poor communicators, & can't construct a sentence or even spell. The few women on there are left with not a lot of good options. This makes it hard to flirt with them or get a sense of whether you'd like them in real life. So if you set yourself apart from the crowd with a subtantively written, thoughtful profile (one that makes you sound like a normal, experienced dude with realistic expectations), you could have a shot at connecting with someone.
That being said, I will jump on the pile and refute Dan's comment re: nerve endings and doing it for the guy's pleasure. It was my idea, I probably bring it up just as often as the husband, and with a Nexus (anatomically double ended, we have the smaller version), I can come like crazy from the sensations and sheer hotness of it all.
Best of luck out there, there are girls that are dying to do this with you, you will find them.
Nerve endings at your pleasure centers are just a very very nice bonus.
Being a single woman, like a single man, means a wading through a lot of crap looking for a suitable partner. We don't just grab the nearest asshole and decide "he'll do."
there's also a version that vibrates--on the giver's end. G spot--yes, please.
So I agree with all the people who say "look for a woman who's open minded, rather than one who is into pegging"
Both make great solo toys and anybody with an interest in strap-on sex needs to have one. I've known women who came within seconds of penetrating their partner with one.
Ermmm ... dear, being a single man means wading through a lot of crap looking for ANY partner at all. The nearest asshole (or bitch) is often the best we can do, especially if we have some kind of strange kink.
Oh, and yeah--a massive, massive part of the turn-on is the domination aspect. UM.
He may do better on one of the sister sites "AltFriendFinder" which is dedicated to BDSM, since "pegging" doesn't fall into the "norm" of AFF, which is primarily married or otherwise attached men looking to hook up with women on a very casual basis.
And despite being one of the few "real" women on the site, I had trouble finding the kind of guys I wanted. When I broke up with one, an alcoholic since he was 19, my father said, "What do you expect from a sex site?" I said, "I expected a pervert, not a drunk!"
I'm into giving anal to girls with big butts. That is the only kind of sex I enjoy. And do you know how much trouble it is to find out if they are into it or even willing? You can't just ask that question on a first date. Or even a second usually. It almost takes a relationship just to find out if they are willing.
BLAHHH it is totally frustrating.
Dudeguys who are looking for pegging might want to keep Tristan Taormino's books/DVDs onhand. She has the goods for anyone into anal at puckerup.com. Consider looking for a mate that reads Savage Love and NOT Dear Prude (even though I love most of her advice, her sexual prudity is not amusing to me.)
So, you have no standards? You're in luck. I've known a lot of girls that never get laid and want some. Any. The 36 year old virgin in Dan's podcast a few weeks ago is an example of one of those.
Of course, they aren't highly attractive, 15 years younger or have culturally desirable bodies. Every guy in the bar hits on the "8" that walks in the door, assumes the 9's and 10's are out of his league and ignores all the others. If 40 guys hit on one chick, you know how many are going to get some? None. She gets annoyed and goes home, then tells all her friends and they don't go there in the future.
Wanna get laid? Be nice to the average, mousy chick or the ugly friend or the woman everyone else is ignoring. Not creepy, not sleazy, just polite and genuinely friendly. Better yet, leave the bar and the sex web sites and go to where the women are.
51% of the people in the US are female. The odds are in your favor if any one of them will do.
But another issue that I haven't seen referred to is that I would want to know who was buying the equipment. I've seen Craigslist ads before from guys wanting to get pegged, but they all seem to assume that there are women with strap-ons just waiting at home by the computer for the right guy to peg. If I was going to peg someone, I'd want him to shell out for the toys, since its his ass that's getting the fun from them. That can be some expensive shit. I pay for my own toys, so its only fair.
Hopefully I've elucidated a little bit about why it is so obnoxious to just look for a girl to peg you and not expect anything in return....pegging is hard work!!! physically it is fun (so what if a dildo has no nerve endings?!? the hotness of finger fucking someone is as much about the reactions of the person you're fucking as it is about the sensations your fingers feel) but it is hard work emotionally, which can be wonderful in the context of a long term loving relationship, but in the context of casual sex is just more hassle than it is worth. So why not just pay me to do both the emotional hand holding and literal ass fucking?
Tip for other peggers out there: post your own ads, don't bother with replies. You'll get the pick of the litter that way.