I never knew his real name, but I will remember the sound of his voice, which I'm hearing in my head right now. If I'm not mistaken he was the original recipient of the Fnarf Bed Pan at the first Slog Christmas Gift Exchange. I've forgotten who has it now.
@6, I can't even remember where I put my coffee cup five seconds ago, but was your regift to Nicholaus in 2011? That's the only one that made it into Slog. Current whereabouts unknown.
Dominic, I looked, and Rhett's been missing for a while now. That last post was August 2013, not 2014. I hope he was off finding better things to do with his time and wasn't just ill the entire year.
I'm sure Matt Hickey will not object to my linking to his picture of Rhett Oracle on Flickr, for those of you who can't quite place him. He was at nearly every Slog Happy.
My first Slog Happy was one of the last official ones. It was surprising to see Fred there, whom I had known for years through the chorus, sitting at a table with a bunch of strangers I would eventually come to know as good friends. I would also run into him frequently at film festivals and screenings of the Oscar-nominated shorts. It seemed he was everywhere.
It was surprising to see that we overlapped between the Chorus and Slog, but it's not at all surprising to see him mourned so sincerely in both circles.
My condolences to friends and family. This is the first announced passing of a Slogger in a long, long while.
Though I have not met any of you, and may never, I worry all the time about regulars of the kind, patient, humorous, insightful, strategically sarcastic persuasion (any one of the above will do) who suddenly disappear.
Know that you are missed, and if circumstances allow, pop in to a Morning News thread or something to say you're taking a break. Case in point, the wonderful merry, whose last comment was in May 1st's "What Will You Be Doing for May Day?":
Working my next-to-last day at my good 17-year union job, before being outsourced tomorrow.
I've never attended a Slog Happy, and never knew Rhett personally, but I have fond recollections of his posts. It always seemed to me that his heart was in the right place.
As Fred's defacto care taker, neighbor, and close friend, the last year hasn't been kind to Fred. I was with him when he passed yesterday afternoon. He went peacefully, although with a little drama on the part of his friends and the Seattle paramedics. To the end he remained cheerful, surly, kind, and a wicked wit. Thank you, Dominic, for the kind words. He loved the Slog and it's staff.
I really enjoyed every conversation I had with Fred—he was a wonderful person, and very giving. I have a book he sent me (about a pope) sitting on my desk at home.
This is really sad. I also never met Fred. But I do recall reading his witty and and sometimes embarrassing-dad-like comments.
It's easy to forget that the people posting on here are regular people in our community. And that their sudden departure from their online presence isn't always a lack of caring about posting anymore; that they can become sick, move away, or even pass away.
I make very few contributions to SLOG, but I read almost everything posted, every day, including the comments. RIP Fred. Thank you Dominic, for posting this.
@19: Off the top of my head, maybe Griffin and Hernandez qualify for your list? Griffin hasn't been around much lately either.
Every now and then I use the Search function to look for some subject (or brilliant witticism) on Slog, and there are always several long-lost commenters to be found in the threads among the search results.
There is a Facebook group called "friends of slog" and we talk over there sometimes too, but not as often as we should. That's where we plan the unofficial slog happies and whatnot. Please come join us! Then getting to meet/know each other in real life becomes a lot easier. I'm the admin and I promise to do my best gatekeeping against the trolls. So far so good.
Interesting; cats yield greater dividends. But I think that's an apples and oranges comparison. 14% of Americans own stock, while 30% of households own cats. But there are more Americans than there are American households, so it's not like more than twice as many households or Americans own cats than stocks.
With these people in charge, it's no wonder the economy is a litter box.
Looks like the original source, CNN, did report that it was households vs. households; it was the Marketplace reporter who got sloppy with the language.
And the list has expanded. It is now time to play with some string.
Rest in peace, Mr. Rhett. I lurked on Slog for a couple of years before starting to post & he seemed like a kind-hearted, funny person. It's nice that a community he obviously loved has kind words for him.
@18, DaiBando: I'm sorry you lost your friend, too. Like Dan said, good on you for being there at the end.
There's a couple of Sloggers from my early days I miss. Kim in Portland doesn't post much anymore; I also miss Uriel-238, who I guess went lurker, or so their status said in 2010.
I did not put it together until I saw the picture who it was that had died.
I didn't know him well at all, but I am so, so sorry that Slog, and those who knew him in real life, have lost some one of his calibre.
@33: I miss Kim too. And Canuck. Oh how I miss Canuck.
In case anyone is still reading this thread, there will be a celebration of Fred's life on Saturday November 8, 3:00 PM at Seattle First Baptist Church, 1111 Harvard Avenue. All are welcome.
Rhett and I were both usually early arrivals to the Slog Happy gatherings, so I had many opportunities to talk with him before things got busy. He was always a great conversation. I'm sad that we lost another one; I've met so many great people through this blog, and he is one of them!
Dominic, I looked, and Rhett's been missing for a while now. That last post was August 2013, not 2014. I hope he was off finding better things to do with his time and wasn't just ill the entire year.
https://www.flickr.com/photos/mattoly/25…
It was surprising to see that we overlapped between the Chorus and Slog, but it's not at all surprising to see him mourned so sincerely in both circles.
Though I have not met any of you, and may never, I worry all the time about regulars of the kind, patient, humorous, insightful, strategically sarcastic persuasion (any one of the above will do) who suddenly disappear.
Know that you are missed, and if circumstances allow, pop in to a Morning News thread or something to say you're taking a break. Case in point, the wonderful merry, whose last comment was in May 1st's "What Will You Be Doing for May Day?": I hope you are okay.
RIP, Fred.
I am putting merry on my cat list (under my bio in my Slog profile). I liked merry's comments.
I've been wondering where BEG has gone.
Sad to hear of his death and that the last year was so rough. He was always a delight both in person and online.
Hugs all around, guys - Love you! xx
Thank you, DaiBando, for being there.
It's easy to forget that the people posting on here are regular people in our community. And that their sudden departure from their online presence isn't always a lack of caring about posting anymore; that they can become sick, move away, or even pass away.
I make very few contributions to SLOG, but I read almost everything posted, every day, including the comments. RIP Fred. Thank you Dominic, for posting this.
Every now and then I use the Search function to look for some subject (or brilliant witticism) on Slog, and there are always several long-lost commenters to be found in the threads among the search results.
@27 - me too.
Interesting; cats yield greater dividends. But I think that's an apples and oranges comparison. 14% of Americans own stock, while 30% of households own cats. But there are more Americans than there are American households, so it's not like more than twice as many households or Americans own cats than stocks.
With these people in charge, it's no wonder the economy is a litter box.
Looks like the original source, CNN, did report that it was households vs. households; it was the Marketplace reporter who got sloppy with the language.
And the list has expanded. It is now time to play with some string.
@18, DaiBando: I'm sorry you lost your friend, too. Like Dan said, good on you for being there at the end.
There's a couple of Sloggers from my early days I miss. Kim in Portland doesn't post much anymore; I also miss Uriel-238, who I guess went lurker, or so their status said in 2010.
I also still miss Memorex. :(
He was a nice guy.
I didn't know him well at all, but I am so, so sorry that Slog, and those who knew him in real life, have lost some one of his calibre.
@33: I miss Kim too. And Canuck. Oh how I miss Canuck.
Rhett Oracle will be missed, although I never met him.