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@17: I assume it went along the lines of "How dare the wife ruin the mistress' burgeoning relationship! Didn't she know they were meant to be?"
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I wish Dan, if he knows the LW's real name, would set up a Google news alert for her. That way he could announce how long it takes before she's in the news for kidnapping. Over/under is six months.
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@110: Win. I wonder if this one is a rerun from January 2007.
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Venn@106; ouch! Popular on the other thread?
You got a problem with Men and Women playing? I love when the Men and Men play
( though they don't do it often enough)..
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Not to leave myself open to some cheek, I meant playing on these threads..
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@113: Damn. If only you'd meant Scrabble...
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Ah, revenge! It's such a sweet thing to fantasize about when one is hurt and really angry at a mothafucka who hasn't treated us right! I remember my deepest crush, and potential bf, dumped me unceremoniously after some intense bonding sessions. In my angst and hate-filled desire for him, all I wanted to do was hurt him somehow so that he could feel the same hurt I felt after his actions towards me. I planned to go scratch his car with a key, of course anonymously. I also planned to text him hurtful things to him. Those fantasies really helped cope with my anger, but I'm really glad I never acted on them. Firstly, acting on those things wouldn't have made me feel better or good about myself at all, in fact I would be left dealing with the repercussion on my identity for acting in such an immature manner. I would be left wondering, "am I 'that' kind of person?" Secondly, he would've reacted in a hostile manner as well, thereby locking us in an even unhealthier dynamic and preventing me from moving on. Thirdly, I would've wasted my energy on giving him more importance and attention in my life than he actually deserved. I feel so proud of my self for not being an immature twit, and am happy that I can tell myself that I'm not the type of person that deliberately hurts anyone, even if they did that to me. I am not the type of person that stoops to their level. I think that's what you should tell yourself too. Hope you burn that book!

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