"Amy" sounds an awful lot like Mistress Matisse.

Amy sounds a lot like I think Dan would sound if he was a woman !

Women just don't take their sexual-orientation as incredibly seriously as men do.

We all know that straight men like a bit of cock, and that gay men occasionally turn a blind eye to the pussy in the room. But they've all got masculinity to deal with - giving them this massive pressure to perform and prove themselves, and be a certain kind of man.

Women don't have that to tie them down, and women usually care more about shared values, having a conversation, and whether someone shares the cooking than what they've got in their pants or exactly what they do in the bedroom anyway! Half Dan's straight male readers are complaining about this - that their women don't want to fuck enough, or won't invest in experimenting with wilder stuff.

This frees women up to have the kind of relationships that fit where they are in life, and end up with a healthy balanced diet of partners. I know a lot of older lesbians who've gone the other route - been married earlier in life, and now have grown-up children.

Almost all people are bi? I like to believe that ALL people are in fact bi - some obviously more than others. It just depends on how you've been cultivated, in my opinion.