Unfortunately, the link provided above by A Very Good Finder does not work, probably due to the way that this site processes URLs embedded in posts. It may have worked when posted but the reason it is no longer a link is that it doesn't anymore, hell, I dunno.

The link included in the current version of this article does provide additional advice to 15-year-old gay kids, but not this particular one (who is into BDSM). Currently, the additional contributions that Dan mentions in this column above can be found at http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/Conte…, but given the nature of web site management that is likely to change at some point.