As a man who dated a heavily devoted Burning Man woman for the better part of 4 years...my advice is to STEER CLEAR! I could write a short book about how lame the situation was. I basically became a reluctant cuckold...in all aspects of our life.
I went to Burning Man for the first time this year. As a single 31yo straight male I thought (hoped) that sex would be a large part of my experience, but it wasn't. I became so enthralled in my camp and the art and the dancing and, yes, the drugs, that sex wasn't something I was actively seeking out. I discovered that just as I don't like hook up culture at home, I didn't love it there. I like knowing the people I sleep with. At Burning Man sex can be had more easily than in every day life, you still do have to seek it out. It's not just one big pile of hippies fucking each other (for better or worse). I had several partnered friends, some there with their partners, some alone, and they had no problem not having sex. There's so many other things to be doing at Burning Man it almost seems like a waste to be having sex - you can do that back home, and in a bed after showering.
On a side note (and to brag), I did finally have sex on the last day, with a camp mate I'd been friends with all week. She came back to my home in LA for three days after burning man where we had nonstop unbelievable GGG sex. She said one of her big attractions to me was my openness and honesty when it came to communicating about sex and relationships, which I entirely attribute to being a savage love reader (she is now a fan as well). Thank you Dan for getting another one of your readers laid!
On a side note (and to brag), I did finally have sex on the last day, with a camp mate I'd been friends with all week. She came back to my home in LA for three days after burning man where we had nonstop unbelievable GGG sex. She said one of her big attractions to me was my openness and honesty when it came to communicating about sex and relationships, which I entirely attribute to being a savage love reader (she is now a fan as well). Thank you Dan for getting another one of your readers laid!