Columns Jan 15, 2014 at 4:00 am

Dear Hit-and-Run Victim

Steven Weissman

Comments

1
come on you guys can make up better shit than this
2
Dude - get a clue. The guy did not want to be involved with the police. Seems pretty obvious to me.
3
@ I, Anon:

First, can't you make up better shit than this?

And Second, maybe the dude was not interested in dealing with the pigs?
4
Probably had a warrant for his arrest or a pocket full of drugs or both.
5
@4 yep!
6
Being high on something would explain why
1) He got hit in the first place
2) He didn't want to deal with cops
3) He was able to get up and move along so quickly

8
Calling bullshit. IA submitter has presence of mind to take down the license number of a perp already speeding away, but not that of a victim staggering to his car, getting in, starting up, and pulling out?
9
There's a lot of desperate people out there.
10
I was on a bus when a teen kicked an old man in the head twice. We called the cops, but then the other riders started telling the old man that he really didn't want to talk to the cops, so he said nothing happened and he didn't want to press charges.

We have a problem if people are afraid of reporting crimes to the cops.
11
Some people really don't like cops. I had a friend get hit by a car a few years ago who was so anti-cop that he did the same thing and left when I said I was going to call them. They arrived and I called him and plead with him to come back and file a report but he refused to talk to the police.
12
@10 maybe you didn't read the Stranger this week http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/bad-c…

Then of course there's this previous I, Anonymous http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/i-ano…
13
What #7 said. I've been hit by cars as a pedestrian twice. I had the walk sign both times and the drivers were turning left while looking right for oncoming traffic while failing to check for pedestrians in the crosswalk. Both times, my flight response kicked in and my first instinct was just to get out of the car's path. And the drivers just drove off, as so many drivers tend to do these days. You are in shock when this kind of thing happens.
14
At any point did you bother to let this person know that you had notified the police on their behalf, or did the righteous indignation kick in as they stood up?
15
When I was a pedestrian struck by a hit and run motorist, the Seattle Police Department was never able to find the guy who hit me, despite a description of the driver, vehicle and the complete, admittedly out of state, license plate number. I am officially shit out of luck to this very day.

Strangely, my insurance company, perhaps motivated by my medical bills, found the car and driver with little delay.
16
There's enough a-holes on the planet for this story to be believable.

As others have pointed out (rudely as usual) the man wasn't obligated to go to the police. Sometimes you measure the wrong done against the hassle of reporting it and skip the hassle.

While you had your heart in the right place, it wasn't your choice to make in the end.
17
Is there a duty to report to protect future victims? If this is a pattern of behavior on the driver's part, is that something that should be ignored?

How many people are injured or killed each year when criminals escalate an established pattern that had been previously ignored or seen as too much hassle to report? Makes me think of the news interviews after a major crime. Everyone says they knew something was wrong with that guy, but they never put it all together.
18
@15 Good economic point, if the police identified the driver it would cost the city money to catch and prosecute him. No value for them in that.

Your insurance company, on the other hand, could recover at least some of your bills from the driver's insurance company or squeezing him personally.
19
There is actually a decent chance that the driver was putting himself through hell by constantly looking over his shoulder in a sweat-soaked panic every time he heard a noise, positive it was the cops showing up to arrest him for the hit and run,and is now off scot-free after reading this in the Stranger.
20
My mother was hit by a car, said she was OK, and went to work bloody. She works at a hospital, and her colleagues made her go to the ER because she was obviously in shock. Instead of blaming the guy who got hit, you could have tried to convince him to wait for some medical help. Sounds like you're more interested in punishing the hitter than helping the victim.
21
@I, Anon, what kind of car were you driving when you hit that pedestrian? I mean, this is obviously you fishing for potential witnesses and then reframing it with you as the valiant bike rider who is only there to help...
22
He probably did not want to meet the police. He may have been on drugs or on a lamb.
23
The last two or three dozen I, Anons have been pretty lame.
24
I watched a pit bull attack an elderly lady outside the kayak shop on Alki were I was working. White tissue was visible from the wound. She didn't want to call the police. Panic behavior might explain that because I sure can't. I rode the piece of shit and his dog down and told him to deal with the situation. Of course he ignored me. The lady refused to call or let us call the police despite our obvious exasperation. I believe this I anon.
25
The lady refused to call or let us call the police despite our obvious exasperation.
She could not have refused to let you call. She could have asked you not to call, but you should have done so anyway.

Years ago in Portland, I saw a bum get rolled, hit the sidewalk, and start bleeding profusely. A few yuppie do-gooders standing around kept telling me "he said he didn't want medical...".

"Tough shit", I told them. It's not up to him if *I* call medical for him. And he did need medical.

Sometimes people don't know what's best for them, especially in trauma situations.
26
he was in shock. he had just been hit by a car. being in shock does not make a person a moron. the morons were all the people who let a person in shock and injured drive off in his car. possibly injuring someone else. there were morons in this story but it was the narrator and the bystanders. the moron was YOU, anonymous. learn some basics about an injury before pointing the moron finger, moron. you suck with your sanctimonious bullshit. your TIME was wasted? spare us the first world boo-hoo. fuck off. you are mad at yourself for not being ballsy enough to take the keys from the injured person--don't blame others for your cowardice. YOUR inaction possibly injured other people as YOU were NOT in shock. you have no excuse, so you blame the victim. classy.
27
I was hit by a car (my fault) that was coming out of a driveway. It knocked me off my bike, and the injury was minor but I was in shock.

And thought the guy offered to help me and take me to a doctor, I really wasn't up for having to make a judgement as to whether I needed help or not, ( I didn't know) so my default instinct was to insist I was fine, and get away. Even though I was a bit hurt, and didn't know for sure if I was going to be ok or not, I was more concerned with minimising embarrassment.

Having a stranger inconvenience them self to look after you is awkward, especially when it's your fault.
28
Thank you, #26. Great comment!
29
People do funny things when they're in shock, including not wanting help from strangers.
You should have taken both license plates, then asked the police to find the victim, too, if you were that bothered by it all.
30
@16: If you would like everything sugarcoated, might I suggest trying a different internet?
31
Yeah, fuck that guy for being in shock and unable to think clearly!
Thank God you were a good Seattleite and passively stood by, right comrade?
32
Why are you so nasty? What on earth happened to make you judge people so cruelly? This from a citizen of a stolen nation with the right to carry weapons?

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