I'm a "hairy" girl as well and before losing my virginity, it bothered me and I thought once I DID undress for a guy, he'd be grossed out. But other than shaving the essentials (legs, armpits, snatch) I don't bother with the rest of my body and, much to my surprise, I have never had a guy run from the bedroom (or truck, janitors' closet, etc.) screaming in terror and disgust from seeing my hair. Trust me, he is WAY more interested in your holes than your hair, love.

"Former HB": Argh, no, that is a MYTH. If you experienced your hair "growing back thicker & darker" after tweezing, I'm pretty sure it's because you would have gotten hairier during that time regardless of hair removal. Humans continue to get hairier well past puberty, so it can seem like shaving or waxing increases hair production, but I promise you it is a common myth. My experience has been the opposite; since my eyebrows haven't gotten thicker with age, plucking them 3x/week for 8+ years has resulted in significant thinning; the hair grows back much more sparsely.

I'd suggest hairy gals get their hormone lvs checked, just in case, & then learn to love being soft & snuggly & fuzzy. It's always bugged me that liking humans in their natural, hairy state is a "fetish", complete with special porn. All porn could stand a little more hair.