Savage Love

Gay Ol' Time

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In response to the response to "Bud":

Or you could, you know, go past "resigned" and actually discuss the situation with your boyfriend and his wife, and see if there's any possibility of working it out more "publically" between the three of you. If you can all manage to get along you may be able to form a happy household that includes all of you and flourishes with open communication and love for all.

Or trying to do so could explode in your face. But if you really want to be happy *without* breaking up your boyfriend's marriage, it's a risk you'll have to take.

As a bi poly married fella I'm mildly resentful of the advice not to mess with folks like me. Better, I think, would be be more open and direct and talk to everyone involed... or if that's too much processing for you, GTFO.

Light and laughter,
SongCoyote
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As an aspiring polyamorous bi I feel inclined to give a nod to SongCoyote, and ditto his resentment of Dan's advice.
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As an aspiring polyamorous bi I feel inclined to give a nod to SongCoyote and ditto the resentment at Dan's advice.