omg, i actually read the book that that story was featured in. the book is called "Haunted" and has been one of my favorite books for years.

My girlfriend and her girlfriend frequently peg me. We were very circumspect about it and I still am, but the two women now talk about it openly and say that the naming of it by a term that is inoffensive is behind the spread of the practice. I have been asked about it by several woman and been propositioned by a couple of men as a result. My girlfriend has suggested I take the men up on their offers (as long as she can watch) to see if I like it. I don't see myself as gay but I have always accomodated my girlfriend so I have agreed to do it. Pegging doesn't equal gay, but it seems its going to in my case.

Dear Dan Savage, I love you for telling Bro off. I had a bad experience with some guys doing shit like that to me as a young teen, and it was pretty scarring. Not to mention I had parents who beat me if they thought I was having sex. The abuse really messed with me. Looking back I know he sexually assaulted me in front of his friends, and what my family did is outright fucked. You telling these douche bags off has given me courage. Thank you :)

Really? No mention of the fact that this guy is hiding under the bed while his roommate fucks some random girl? That's got to be worthy of comment.