My. Dan was certainly cranky that day, wasn't he? Deservedly so, but isn't it amazing that he's so intuitive that he knew all the straight people who wrote in were Bush supporters and anti-gay assholes and deserved to be treated as such?
WETPANTS, if you ever come back and read this: A former lover of mine had the same "problem", which he turned to an advantage in playing dominance games and in complimenting me when he was trying to get into my pants ("you made me so wet...."). He dealt with it by always carrying a hanky which he would discreetly stuff into his pants when needed. The side benefit was that he always had a (clean!) hanky to offer me and won major courtesy points with it.
I'm not an expert (I'm just reading through the archive) but if a guy is well-endowed and having issues with condoms, he might need to look into larger sizes. Alternately, he and his partner(s) should make sure that he's putting them on correctly.
WETPANTS, if you ever come back and read this: A former lover of mine had the same "problem", which he turned to an advantage in playing dominance games and in complimenting me when he was trying to get into my pants ("you made me so wet...."). He dealt with it by always carrying a hanky which he would discreetly stuff into his pants when needed. The side benefit was that he always had a (clean!) hanky to offer me and won major courtesy points with it.