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SORRY your cock isn't mushroom shaped enough. It also has a slight bend. What is with this purple vein???? EW, what's WRONG with YOU??!?? This isn't a porn cock AT ALL!!
me to give oral, i wholheartedly believe that reciprocation is always in order. I have still yet to understand why fellatio is something which guys generally expect, but something that many of them treat as only a "special occasion" event for us gals. LAME!!!
Speaking of which, I had an interesting discussion with one of my straight friends the other day. He admitted that he would never, ever taste or, god forbid, swallow his own come. My rejoinder was that hey, you expect women and non-hetero men to do that, so why the fuck are you not willing to try to get down to the nitty-gritty yourself with gals on a regular basis? He admitted the truth of train of my logic. still doubt he'd do it, but at least it's food for thought. What is up with men's sqeamishmess over their delightful boy secretions?? I'm not squeamish about my own
basically if the thought of getting fully involved with your ladys sweet juicy fanny (british fanny not yank fanny - not really into eating that too much) doesnt enter your head at least 20 times a day then you're probably gonna have to sit down and start asking yourself some serious questions
When I finally snapped and ran for the hills, I almost immediately called up an old "friend" to help me out. The sense of relief that came over me at his enthusiasm for giving me head and the absolute earth-shattering, mind-altering multiple orgasms that quickly followed changed the very core of my phsyche in an instant. Or maybe it was five instants, I can't recall. I will never, NEVER! EVER! put up with anything even remotely akin to my pent-up ex-lover's hangup about cunnilingus.
I mean, seriously, why would you date someone who thinks of your genitals with DISTASTE? Fuck that! Or better yet, DON'T.
Like 'santorum' (brilliantly played), 'Toews' should refer to something familiar to people of all sexual preferences, and unpleasant to most. It has to be something all genders produce, and like 'santorum' embarrassing for the 'catcher', and off-putting for the 'pitcher'. 'Toews': pubic hair in the back of the throat that can't be removed without coughing like a cat with a hairball.
Signed: 'god always commands kemptness'
Nevermind the fact that politicians with run-of-the-mill affairs like this are a dime a dozen, and minority governments like the one we have now are typically aged in days, not years (unlike the one we have now). I suspect Toews will be without a job in politics in short order anyway.
I don't think that makes him a fag.
He found a partner now that hates to give head, so they're both happy with the arrangement of never doing or having pressure to perform oral sex.
-yes, bad body image (@179). I have a hard time looking down at my body. I have a hard time looking down at my lover when he is between my legs, because I know he is able to look up and have a full view of my body. Then I tense up and experience oral sex as trauma instead of pleasure. I can get past this, but it takes work.
-fear that it smells/is ugly/etc. Do you remember the plethora of "rotten fish" jokes that boys make in middle school? Jokes that they've picked up from lousy "macho" movies & etc? Even once you grow up and realize that the guys making those jokes are just insecure, it is hard to forget that early fear. It takes work.
-not believing that it is feminine to request, assert or demand what you want in bed. Holding the (misguided) belief that women are supposed to meet the needs of others, not have their own needs met. You can get over this, and it takes work.
-lack of self-confidence. I have had to develop a strong sense of self to be able to enjoy receiving pleasure. Five years ago the idea of a guy going down on me was a turn-off because I couldn't believe that he would actually enjoy it. Note that I dated some great guys who earnestly tried to convince me otherwise. But no one else will ever convince you of your own self-worth. You have to do that for yourself. It takes a lot of work!
Anyway - these are just a few of the many ways psychological issues have prevented me from enjoying oral sex. Even though the behavior of NOT's bf is what I used to fear, I am willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe there are deep-seated psychological hang-ups at the core of his fear of eating pussy. Or maybe he's just a selfish jerk. Either way, NOT shouldn't hesitate to move on if she desires oral sex and he's not willing to go there. It's not up to her to fix his issues, but she needs to make sure her own needs are met.
Thanks for understanding - otherwise, I really love your column, Dan, keep up the good work!
Also, to the girlfriend of the fag who doesn't like the sight or taste of pussy,if she's intent on hanging onto him for his taste in clothing or his health insurance (you guys still don't have that? Weird), she ought to blindfold him and use an oral damn of some variety. I hear they make them in flavours so he can get one in Gay Grape or something.
"on the menu? Wtf is that?" Er, the only time I've heard that reference was on an episode of Sex in the City where Samantha talks about a sex act being "on the menu."
Yep, you were right to dump him. The times that he wasn't busy having you suck his dick with his eyes closed whilst he imagined a guy doing it, he was chilled out in front of the Sex in the City box set....
He used to live above Steve Harper’s garage. Now he may be the second most powerful man in Ottawa.
“Ray is effectively the Prime Minister’s closest confidant,” enthuses one government official. “Not only as a member of his staff, but as a personal and intimate member of the Prime Minister’s life.”
http://www2.macleans.ca/2010/07/20/who-k…
For nearly four years while Harper was opposition leader, Novak, then with the title of executive assistant, lived in a small loft above the detached garage at Stornoway—the opposition leader’s official residence—eating meals with the family and growing close to Harper’s two young children.
This is the detail that has come to define an aide who, by some tellings, knows Harper better than all but the Prime Minister’s wife and mother. “Ray was with him more than anybody else for years and years and years,” says Brodie, who served as Harper’s chief of staff for three years. “They were literally hardly ever apart.”
In addition to living with the Harper family at Stornoway, he oversaw Harper’s tour operations, coordinated with his security detail and served as the Prime Minister’s envoy to the families of the Air India bombing. “Ray will get it done,” says a former member of the PMO. “And he will do so with total discretion.”
When Harper returned to federal politics in 2001 to pursue the Alliance leadership, he tabbed Novak as his assistant.
As principal secretary, Novak travels with the Prime Minister abroad...
He used to live above Steve Harper’s garage. Now he may be the second most powerful man in Ottawa.
“Ray is effectively the Prime Minister’s closest confidant,” enthuses one government official. “Not only as a member of his staff, but as a personal and intimate member of the Prime Minister’s life.”
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For nearly four years while Harper was opposition leader, Novak, then with the title of executive assistant, lived in a small loft above the detached garage at Stornoway—the opposition leader’s official residence—eating meals with the family and growing close to Harper’s two young children.
This is the detail that has come to define an aide who, by some tellings, knows Harper better than all but the Prime Minister’s wife and mother. “Ray was with him more than anybody else for years and years and years,” says Brodie, who served as Harper’s chief of staff for three years. “They were literally hardly ever apart.”
In addition to living with the Harper family at Stornoway, he oversaw Harper’s tour operations, coordinated with his security detail and served as the Prime Minister’s envoy to the families of the Air India bombing. “Ray will get it done,” says a former member of the PMO. “And he will do so with total discretion.”
When Harper returned to federal politics in 2001 to pursue the Alliance leadership, he tabbed Novak as his assistant.
As principal secretary, Novak travels with the Prime Minister abroad...