Cunt is just about my favourite word in the English language. I can think of no more intimate a term to describe everything so pleasing & maddening about my lover at the same time. And if it was good enough for Chaucer, it's good enough for me.

I nominate the word poontang. It's hilarious, descriptive, foreign yet hilarious, serious, appropriate, and hilarious. Though I do like cock in a box too.

Rach31

I'm FtM, been on T for 10 years, and my clit isn't really a clit anywhere. I've just asked my wife and she reckons when it get aroused it's about the size of her thumb. I've never measured it, I tend to have my mind elsewhere at the time. But it's definately large for a clit.

Great to see this much positive stuff about ftm sex.

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This site offers public debate and a sphere for social opinion, while also igniting social awareness. It pertains to people of various sexualities and serves as a learning space for people who need specific sexual advice or just for people who are interested in exploring their sexuality.

Advice columns are oftentimes annoying to read and useless because reacting the way the advice tells you to is easier said than done. To be an influential advice columnist you have to live it. You need to mean your words and only preach what you know. Dan Savage certainly knows what he's talking about.

Advice columns are oftentimes annoying to read and useless because reacting the way the advice tells you to is easier said than done. To be an influential advice columnist you have to live it. You need to mean your words and only preach what you know. Dan Savage certainly knows what he's talking about

Cock in a Box is a great story, question and concern most people would have and are having! Like myself, I once had a boyfriend that is FTM without a penis, with me I was concerned that if I continued loving him as a male with a Vagina would I then be... Straight!?! As a gay male I know very well that I like and enjoy the male body, but if I stick with a boy that is not completely a boy..YET, would I enjoy his Vagina more if he kept it or not miss it at all if he got a penis? confused confused confused...so I had to break it off.

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Alrighty, I'm going to say what only one other person has said so far!

I am a FTM and I identify as gay, I also have the personality of a top. The issue is, the idea of vaginal horrifies me. I am not a girl, and under no circumstances do I want to have sex as if I am one. anal is just the same. Regardless of whether it would feel good or not, it is still far too close to the female role for me to be at all comfortable with it. I wouldn't be at all surprised if both of the FTM people mentioned above are the same. It's hard enough knowing yourself that you are masculine, when it feels like your partner is trying to push you into a feminine role.

It's not necissarily about what junk you have, it's about the possition that using it puts you in. Everyone who is saying 'Work him up to it', I completely disagree with. If your guy doesn't want something stuck in him, that's not going to change.

I would advise the first person to ask his partner how he feels, and if he even feels the need to be pleasured in some way. If so, the best course of action is just to ask him what he wants, and work with him slowly and openly.

Transmen, transmales, ftms, etceteras of the world, stop letting the united propagandists of the world, guised as the commentariats like Dan Savage and pornographers like Buck Angel name your genitals. You have penises. You are not a "guy with a pussy" and that's not a "hormonally enhanced clit". Don't even degrade yourself with some such "mini-dick" nonsense. It's already a dick, cock, PENIS when you KNEW you were male. And if you'd like to call it something else because you're sexgender is "other", then please go ahead. IT'S YOUR GENITALS AT ALL STAGES OF TRANSITION FROM ALL POINTS OF OBSERVATION.