This thread makes me frustrated. While I know that there are GGG girls who are ready to go 24/7 I have never found one who is close to that for more than a weekend or two. I do have a limit. From experience I have found that my comfortable frequency is around three times every two days. More than three times a day will leave me drained. I can empathize with a man who has found someone who wants more than he can give, but since I found vibrators many years ago I have no issue getting her to where she needs to go. I sometimes tell her that I just appreciate her letting me be there when it happens.

One thing is... there *can* be something to the "if only" letters. It's a little like... when I'm giving advice to people who have reptiles that aren't eating, the first thing I say is "check your conditions"--pet reptiles often won't eat if their cage is too hot or too cold, they don't have UV, they're being fed the wrong thing, etc.

Similarly, a woman who's exhausted taking care of the kids, doing all the housework, getting 30-second wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am sex, etc. is not going to be up for much sexin'.

So, a smart husband of a woman who's not giving him as much sex as he's like should check, first, to make sure he's not doing things (being inconsiderate, leaving her to do all the housework/childcare, failing to do the things she wants in the bedroom, etc) that would kill whatever libido she would otherwise have.

That doesn't mean that a low libido is always the partner's fault (just like a reptile not eating is not always because of bad care conditions), it's just the first obvious thing to check, at least in part because it's the thing that can be most easily controlled by the hubby.