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The best part is I'm not nearly as worried about "Oh fuck, what if the rubber breaks!" and despite popular belief myself and others I know on PrEP don't treat it like a party drug. I take it every morning with a glass of water and usually head off on my 5 am run or work out at the gym.
But for anyone thinking about going on PrEP I would advise you NOT to listen to the Gay Talking Heads on TV or executives from various AIDS foundations who make over $300K per year. Do something insane: TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR, you know the medical professional in your life and talk to other who are on PrEP about their experiences before you decide to take it.
But yeah, I stunned this hasn't been talked about more on Slog or in the gay community in general.
Have fun, kid.
Why did I take it? Believe it or not, it wasn't to be a bareback slut. It was because I was tired of being crippled by fear to the point where I was denying myself sex and relationships TOTALLY. Even with condoms every gay guy knows the pendulum we have swinging over our sex lives that is just waiting to drop. I've only had sex once since I started and it was with an old flame (probably shouldn't have, he was kind of an ass but it was nice to get naked with someone familiar). I don't know when I'll have sex again, maybe this weekend, next week, month, 6 months from now, hopefully with a steady boyfriend. But I don't know, so started prep just in case. I may go off it if my sex life doesn't pick up I may stay on it for a while. But I'm not going to feel guilty for protecting myself from spreading a disease, any more than a woman should feel guilty for using birth control.
1. Because that guy who insists on not using a condom because you're "bot on PrEP" could be lying.
2. Because there's no evidence it will protect you from the inevitable new mutations of HIV coming down the block. And no evidence that it won't encourage new superstrains while you're barebacking with abandon.
3. Because non-HIV STDs are already on the upswing in the gay community and you good ol' barebackers are the people doing it.
4. Because it's something only privileged people can afford or have access to in the first place.
So I'm supposed to give up PrEP and be at greater risk of infection because you think its not fair everyone has access yet? Fuck you.
I wish I could find the link--I can't remember where I read it, but I do remember thinking at the time that it was a reasonably reliable source.
That article mainly discusses use of a vaginal antiviral ring. Good as far as it goes, but if contraception not also widely and cheaply available, you have increased pregnancies and/or men pressuring for anal sex, which would presumably not have the same anti-HIV protection. Women would be better off with oral, systemic anti-retroviral, but cost… oy.
But don't listen to me, and don't listen to ANY internet comments. Listen to your Doctor, the CDC, and the WHO.