This is one of the MOST RIDICULOUS things I have ever read!!
Are you kidding me with this shit??

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The desperation in this I, Anon makes me uncomfortable. Looks like your awesome fuck dodged a bullet.

This is what happens when you give a 7th grader a phone.

Oh but there are grown, middle aged men out who do this shit. Yes. They exist.

You could have received the 'poo' emoji.
That would have been proper grim, no?

Maybe he's just not into you.

a man who says he's in love just to get laid is a pathetic failure as a man and as a human being.

@7: That's possible, but we don't know that's what it was from this.

Also possible: "I'm in love" was brain fog, sincerely meant but dumb nonetheless, and "all the stupid bullshit keeping us apart" was in fact very good reason, and ghosting was realization that the love and the sex were a mistake.

I'd say fucking this Anon would always qualify as a terrible, horrible mistake.

What a pathetic ass. Feel as angry as you need to and then be glad they didn't waste any more of your precious time.

Well - if there is any validation to the diversity memo I read by the software engineer at Google---this would be it!

My level of caring drops through the floor after sex. You should ask after sex if he loves you, not before. And, it's not that he didn't mean it with all his heart before for sex, it's just that all your annoying qualities were drowned out by thoughts of you naked and love'n what he's doing to you and you to him. Once the deed is done all your other qualities are front and center again. Believe me, give it a week and he will love you even more.

@10 You seem to be assuming that Anon is a woman. I see nothing that indicates that to be true.
I believe this qualifies you as an ass. Possibly.

Y'all realize this is a joke post?

Ah, young love.

@12 - It's obviously a woman. Men don't obcess like that.

@7 Yes! Thank you. Anyone who would do that is shitty. I can't believe any of you is defending someone who ghosted someone. I guess what you're really saying is that you find this behavior not at all sociopathic. "The end justifies the means," and all that. That says a lot about you.

@15 you've obviously never dated a man or told a man you're not interested in dating him. OH gawd, the texts and Facebook messages...never ending.

#15 "Men don't obcess like that."

Obsess, you mean? Men do not obsess like that? Oh gawd, if only that were true. I think the above poster is right: this has to be a joke, right? And when I read it, I saw "male author".

@17, for real. I once went on one date with a guy I barely knew and woke up the next morning to find a five-page letter full of heart drawings attached to his ukelele band's CD (NOT the Ukedelics) telling me that I was his soulmate and how he'd never had such an intense connection with anyone in his life. And the whole time I'd been on the date I was thinking we had no connection and wouldn't be seeing each other again.

I've also been stalked by a guy I had a one night stand with who literally sat outside my house for two days in a row calling me over and over again and leaving increasingly creepy messages. Guys can be every bit as obsessive.