I think this is wrong this poor woman has gone thru so much and she doesn't need to go thru this. She want's a divorce and they should give it to her. I was an abused woman for 11 years i have two boy's and i finally got out and moed away to a safe place for my boy's and I to live happier and healthier. the kid's are usually suffer more than anyone in these abusive relationships. Let her get out of this she really wants this.