Lucy, I love you. Lucy haters are terrible people who hate the world.

I really liked Lucy's choices for calls this week. It was a perfect mix of not-so-serious and serious questions, and it all happened at the right pace.

Last time that Dan brought up his "He's monogamous, I'm not" anecdote, it was a consensual agreement. This time it was cheating?! I swear I've heard him mention this before.

#4 - I thought it was just me! I remember him talking about that as a consensual agreement in the past, but I've also heard him talk about it as cheating more than once.... so I don't know if it started off as cheating and the couple eventually came to an agreement that that person could sleep with other people or what.

I can help you out, Lucy!

Anyway. Great savage love this week.

Lucy is adorable.

Fuck buddies are tough for some of us vagina-havers, though I've had some good experiences. My choice of fuck buddy is a dude who I think is hot and can respect and have fun with, but who has values, interests or a personality type that doesn't mesh so well with mine. I guess this allows me to keep more emotional distance from the situation. Mostly though, it just took practice thinking about sex in a more commodified way. That was hard at first, now it comes easily. I really don't think fuck buddy arrangements are for everyone.

How can anyone dislike Lucy? She has great comedy, remember in her first podcast when she said "Poop on my couch once, shame on you..."

I enjoy Lucy's advice and think she's really funny.

ugh I feel bad... lucy's naivety and silly giggle and syrupy sweet Dan flirtation still annoy me and make me roll my eyes. But I'm happy for Dan that he sounds like he's having fun. that's all I wanted to say!

LUCY!!! I watched that same video about sex as a kid too ahahhaa it was nova the miracle of life right?

The answer to the "hour commute" lady was pretty awful. Yeah, an hour commute doesn't sound like much if you haven't gotten laid in months, but it's not something you're going to do every day if you can avoid it.

I think a better answer is "the sister excuse is bullshit, fuck there whether she's there or not."

"Where's your cocktail?"

Dan, you are such a tease! And Lucy is awesome, but how about a boy version of Lucy at some point? A celebrity guest? The banter is really fun.

Yay! I love Lucy.

To the blow job caller, please consider options of receiving pleasur, other than vaginal fucking. Tell him to go down on you FIRST, or show him how to pleasure you with his fingers. Consider buying a remote controlled vibrating egg. (These are very expensive, but worth it. Make sure you search for body safe sex toys.) He can vibrate the egg as you suck his cock. Or, as Lucy suggested, try 69. If you can't 69 to orgasm, do it as foreplay!
Another option is to simply let him stroke himself to high arousal, and then suck him off for the last part. That way you have to do less work. It's also less work if you give him the blow job while he's sitting on a chair while you kneel in front. Have a flufffy comfy cushion for your knees. It's much easier than giving a blowjob lying down in bed, which is what I used to do. (Balancing that way is difficult.)

To the woman whose husband cheated on her with sex addiction, I will say that, for my part, I don't think that being polyamorous with a person who makes bad judgement calls would be better than being monogamous with a person who makes bad judgement calls. Of course, I don't know you or your partner. Dan's suggestion to talk to a poly-friendly counselor is a good one. Try calling all the different relationship counselors in your area and ask them if they can accept non-monogamous relationships.

For you caller who is coming out to his extended family, your advice may be excellent advice. Still, I'd like to offer another perspective. Check out Lee Harrington's blog, Coming out or Drawing in? at http://passionandsoul.com/soul/out-or-in

I feel like it's pretty easy to avoid falling in love with fuckbuddies, but the way you do it is to pick the right fuckbuddy. If you don't want to fall in love with a fuckbuddy, only pick friends with whom you don't really have romantic chemistry to be fuckbuddies. Also, don't spend time with them like you're in a relationship, spend time with them like you would spend time with a friend you're not fucking.

If you picked someone to be your fuckbuddy and you like them too much or you think they probably like you too much, then you picked wrong. I don't think it's really a good idea to be fuckbuddies with someone who you think would be good relationship material for you.

I Love Lucy. And Dan always shines when he has someone to bounce off of. There's a reason that Johnny Carson had Ed McMahon, and all the late night talk show hosts have their foils.

I love what Lucy brings to the show! It's always been great but having a (sexy) female voice and vagina-based perspective is great. I say keep Lucy around!

Lucy rocks. Thanks for having her on again. Dan, you're always witty and funny, I love the show. Thank you.

I'm late to the party, but I have to say I actually laughed aloud at the office when Lucy mentioned her response to video her mother showed her! Kids say the damnedest things!

I like Lucy. She's a fun variation to the podcast. (and regardless, Dan can do whatever he wants with his podcast... guests, eat, drink, advice, sing, rant, say "douche", or whatever.)

There are various possibilities:

* Ms Lucy is established as a permanency, becomes officially co-host, and eventually turns diva and arranges a coup.

* Ms Lucy becomes a recurring character making periodic appearances.

* Ms Lucy and Mr Savage both get drunk at the same time, after which the smarmy "wife" jokes not-so-mysteriously disappear from the banter. If Mr Savage's inner Susan Lucci is awakened, almost unlimited chaos could ensue, but at least the discussion threads would run to hundreds of posts.

Doubtless there are other possibilities, but those were the first three that came to mind.

Kids in the bonobo community know that the primary purpose of sex is for bonding. Sometimes it results in procreation and sometimes it results in pleasure. But mainly, and even in humans this is true, it is for bonding.

I'm in the don't-hate-Lucy-but-want-her-to-go camp. I like Lucy. I bet if she were my friend, I'd love her. And if she were my assistant, I'd adore her. But I agree with others who say the show is dumber and the flirting is annoying.

You are diluting your brand, dude. You have hard-earned expertise; Lucy does not. It's a credibility issue.

Hi Dan,

Lucy is great, a value adding sidekick that will add new dimension to your MTV project. I'm guessing that her picture will appear on MTV but, alas, I don't have a TV. Please post her picture (& send me a link) so that I can put a face to the voice. Miss Lucy can interpret this request however she wants ;-)

I'm a long-time fan. It goes without saying that your wit is charming, but I've stuck around all these years because you constantly grow and evolve. Thanks!

I know, I am a Lucy hater. I also agree with previous posters that she dumbs down the podcast. At least previous guests knew what the fuck they were talking about (Or they won a contest). Her voice just gets to me and I don't have any idea why people like that she panders to Dan. You know what would be nice? Someone that banters with Dan, gives actual advice, and someone who calls Dan out on his shit sometimes. Not some assistant who just giggles and smiles. Oh, and that whole joke about "she's my wife because she doesn't fuck me" is sex negative and promotes the idea that woman don't enjoy sex. You get letters from both sexes about lack of sex Dan.

Lucy hater haters are haters too. Just sayin'. ;) I enjoy reading the comments on the Lucy shows but will not be listening to any podcasts she's on. Sorry. She's just not for me and I agree with everything the "haters" say. I simply don't get much out of the shows she's on other than to be annoyed and disappointed in my "hero" Dan.

Love- straight girl perspective

Love- the warm attractive voice

Hate- her sheltered, unsophisticated contributions

Hate- her fake ass tone

I don't hate Lucy, but I don't like sycophants. Lucy functions as a fluffer for Dan's ego, it's sad and gross. Too bad he can't have an adult woman who has her own opinions and experiences as a co-host.