Podcasts Mar 15, 2011 at 1:00 am

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22:44: "...where the pastor pounds the pulpit and screams how God hates band nerds."
Priceless!
2
Dan, it's sweet that you want to give that kid's mom the benefit of the doubt but what if she's an abusive nutcase? She could end up lashing out at that kid and her son as a result, even if the articles are sent anonymously. Just sayin.
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This is why husband and I have opened our house to any kid in our family that needs our love and support. Because so often parents are FUCKING WRONG.
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DAN -
why not get the tech saavy at riskers to work on a website that could pass for a "PRAY OUT THE GAY" or "GOD HATES FAGS"or "ONE MAN ONE WOMAN" website

and have a home page with the "CRUSADERS FOR SEXUAL PURITY" or whatever they call themselves. basically a photo gallery of all the ANTI_GAY christians that have fallen from grace.

but on the home page it gives their profile and states their views. Maybe some notable quotes. touts their bigotry as their "accomplishments".

Then you can click on a "what are they doing now" page, and THAT'S WHERE you can see EVERY SINGLE ONE of them is doing the thing that they ummmm "hate".

Like a YES MAN punking of these fools.
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Dan couldn't be more wrong to the wife who doesn't want to have sex with her husband. SHE'S NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM. She doesn't want to fuck him. He's probably a nice guy and she wanted to be in a safe relationship (probably to escape the religious abuse that was being heaped on them) and they got married too young.

I think she needs to divorce him and put him out of his misery. She'll be happier in the long run. So will he.
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People looking for a list of red flags that may indicate an abusive BDSM top can go here:

http://tranarchism.com/2010/12/30/a-fiel…
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cyranothe2nd, you might be right. But it's worth giving it a try, if she cares about him enough to want to remain married. If at 25 or 26 she realizes that they'll never be compatible sexually, she can go out an find love again. And, this time, she'll be more likely to pick somebody sexually compaitble.

But if there's a chance she and her husband can work things out... it's worth at least trying first.
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Regarding the woman whose safeword was ignored, for the future, she may wish to make sure that the play party has a "house safeword". Almost all groups recognize the word "red" as a universal safeword in public spaces. If you yell red, the DM should step in and break the scene immediately. I hope you have much better experiences in the future.
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to the young bisexual wife and her lousy marital sex life, two things Dan missed:

1. try watching porn together. you may find that this kick starts your arousal, and that this transfers over to your husband

2. since you're bi, maybe he'd be open to a threesome with another woman. this is usually a more palatable option to most men than swinging.
10
just listened to this one. Dan mentions a "new study" about how men get erections easier with familiar partners and women get wet easier with new partner...what is this study? where?
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Wow, I can't believe this website. Love it! I like the smart comments coming from all of you. Different personalities brings a wide variety of answers, really great!

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