As originally printed, 9-21-06

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I'm sitting here after reading "So You've Decided to Sleep with a Black Man" and trying to find an appropriate response. The article is a bit of a contradiction, trying to combat the stereotyping of black men but then creating new ones e.g. "Don't ask a brother to go down on you. It's not going to happen, and brothers also don't care for long sessions of foreplay. Just get right to it and keep it simple, keep it real." I'm neither a black man nor am I a woman, but I am a man genuinely interested in the human experience. Stereotyping and labeling are not unique to any one ethnicity or gender; combatting it is good, making new ones bad.
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Duh, this is satirical.
3
When I saw the title of this piece, I thought it could be funny but it misses. Why on earth would you suggest a girl to fiend anything other than utter disappointment after a bad experience with a two minute brother? Why should she allow him to continue a deluded existence? It suggests serious fragility in the ego of a black male. It just might do him some good to break the so called rule of not going down on a woman. Nothing about your piece encourages a woman any color to embrace the possibility of sex with a black man. It sounds like you have something personal to work out after a sad encounter with an unsatisfied white woman. Or maybe you are working to discourage women from having sex with a black man. This piece focuses mostly on negative things and I’m calling you out on it.
4
Good satire offers laughs and insights with some clarity on a specific subject. This is not satire. It's a jumble of a few stereotypes regarding black masculinity that were poorly combined to create laughs. It takes a nose dive after the second paragraph.
5
what a piece of shit writing. I'ma play whatever the hell I feel like when I'm having sex, and if a man doesn't want to go down on me, he better never expect me to go down on him, Black, White, Asian, Hispanic, whatever.

Every single man in this piece would get kicked out of my bed. The neurotic guy with the small-penis and a complex (because of the complex, not the small penis), the fucked up sexist who won't go down on girls, the one who's sleeping with me for being a piece of white meat, the one who lasts one minute...but the one who gets the biggest kick is the piece of shit writer who creates stereotypes as he 'tries' to break them down, fails at satire, and reveals his own insecurity in his ethnic identity.
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Is this supposed to be funny?
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The world would have been better off had you not contributed this garbage. To the author...I'll have you know I just had sex with a Black man last night...the dxxx was big while soft and only became more impressive once in me, "it" was beautiful, he was enthusiastic about giving oral, we enjoyed 5 different genera's of music through out the act, and he fxxxxx me beyond satisfaction. I am a Black woman with a strong preference for White men...but lets just say I'm gonna' "ride" this one out till the damn wheels fall off. Charles...good day sir!
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Another white male, blogger.. Blogging about the black mans penis. Lol
It's amazing how white men think they know so much about black men, but what really pathetic is their need to discuss and debunk a so-called myth. They need to constantly "prove" to the world that the black man is less than them…. Well here's the truth; MOST black men have bigger noses, lips, and penises than men non-melanoid men. Our average penis size is different than yours, so you can keep your studies (Geez….How many do you need to conduct ?) Maybe its in the melanin, but the fact is you guys need to just get over it, because it's really not a big deal to us. Nobody writes this many blogs about the "big nose myth, the big lip myth, or the athletic myth", because those characteristics are convenient for white men. Either for corny jokes, money or entertainment.

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