And it's good! That said, some poly folks will object to "Second Favorite Man" because the relationship described in the song is obviously hierarchical. He's her second favorite man. Some poly people regard hierarchical relationships as problematic because that's not how they've structured their polyamorous relationships and these polyamorous people—so sensitive to being told their Doing It Wrong by monogamists—have no qualms about telling other poly people they're Doing It Wrong.

Anyway! Enjoy the song!

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