Marianne Ihlen was a free spirit of the â60s. A Norwegian expat living on Hydra, a sun-soaked island off the coast of Greece, she joyously juggled several simultaneous sexual relationships, imbibed whatever drink or drug was passed her way, and lived out the kind of perma-vacation that, these days, is only an option for the wealthy. But most importantly, according to Julie Felix, a British-based folk musician, she was a âterrific muse.â Ihlen was, after all, the inspiration behind âBird on a Wire,â âHey Thatâs No Way to Say Goodbye,â and âSo Long, Marianne,â three songs made famous by their creator, Leonard Cohen.
Itâs Ihlenâs passionate, tempestuous, and inspiring on-again/off-again relationship with Cohen that Nick Broomfield explores in his documentary Marianne & Leonard: Words of Love. Unlike many of the directorâs previous docs, like 1998âs Kurt & Courtney or 2017âs Whitney: Can I Be Me?, this film isnât pitched for controversy, nor does it dig up salacious details about his subjects. Itâs an uneven but affectionate portrait of two people who are drawn together, creating sparks and conflagrations whenever they came into contact.
Some of that could be because Broomfield has some skin in this story: Early on, he reveals he and Ihlen were, for a time, lovers on Hydra, and she later pushed him to finish his early films. His fondness for Ihlen is evident throughout, even as he gently takes her to task for the damage done to her son as she tried to maintain her capricious adventures around the world. (Ihlen passed away in July 2016.)
The imbalance comes from Broomfieldâs decision to use Words of Love as a biography of Cohenâs career. The director hits all the highlights, from the sessions with a gun-crazy Phil Spector that resulted in the fascinating 1977 album Death of a Ladiesâ Man, to Cohenâs extended stay in a Buddhist monastery, to the success of âHallelujah,â to his return to the touring circuit. But Ihlen falls into the background, much as she did when Cohen started a relationship with artist Suzanne Elrod in the â70s. Conceptually, it works, but structurally, it hurts the film.
At the same time, the story of the women who supported and suffered for the art of othersâparticularly menâis one that is rarely told. And Broomfield understands that, giving us the full view of the work that Ihlen did to help Cohen as he was typing out his novel Beautiful Losers and writing his legendary songs. He even brings us into the quiet life she led after returning to Norway, and to the hospital room where she breathed her last and was read a lovely telegram from Cohen. Words of Love gives Ihlen gets her well-earned due, in hopes sheâll be remembered and appreciated beyond the grooves of Cohenâs albums.