And Chandler Burr gave it a strongly positive reviewā€”my publisher says the review qualifies as a raveā€”in yesterday's Washington Post:

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In ā€œAmerican Savage,ā€ thereā€™s a telling passage on monogamy. Dan Savage, who has written the sex advice column ā€œSavage Loveā€ for more than 20 years, states, ā€œMy husband Terry and I are mostly monogamous... There are timesā€”certain set and limited circumstancesā€”when it is permissible for us to have sex with others.ā€ Thatā€™s representative of Savageā€™s franknessā€”startling, disarming, suicidal or courageous, depending on your perspective. Iā€™m not aware of anyone with his degree of public presence who so frankly, even cheerfully, offers a contrary view to apple-pie norms. Unsurprisingly, Savage has a reputation as a bomb thrower. ā€œAmerican Savageā€ shows why that perception is suprisingly misleading.

Savage is aware of his rep. And he has a ball with it. He quotes Fox News host Mike Huckabee describing him as ā€œunnecessarily rude, vile, and angry.ā€ Then he merrily replies: ā€œHave you seen my husband in a Speedo. . . ? Rest assured that Iā€™m a happy person, Mike.ā€ And he rips gleefully through the hypocrisy of condemning gay people by selectively quoting the Bible.

But these pyrotechnics are actually where ā€œAmerican Savageā€ is least interesting. Weā€™ve heard the traded insults before. And if youā€™ve already read multiple times about how the Bible has been used to justify every possible position on every subject, itā€™s not much different in Savage style. ā€œAmerican Savageā€ is best when it is most unusual, an extraordinarily personal, deeply felt book about traditional marriage, authentic and healthy religion and a traditional sex life.

Please go read the rest of the Burr's review.

I'm speaking at the New York Public Library tonightā€”in conversation with Andrew Sullivanā€”and in Seattle at Town Hall on June 16. Ari Shapiro is coming to town for the Seattle event. Info here and tickets here.