(DANCE NIGHT) For years I've been hearing about Sunday nights at Re-bar, the longest running house night on the West Coast, and for years I never remembered to go. Until three Sundays ago. When I got there at midnight, it was just filling up. (Lesson: go late.) Within minutes I was talking to someone I'd never seen before, and then we were dancing (the music's great), and then we were drinking Jameson (the girls behind the bar are hot), and then we went for a drive, and we've been dating ever since. (Re-bar, 1114 Howell St, 233-9873. Get there around midnight, $7, 21+.)