“‘Gay’ more defines the typical West Hollywood, muscle-bound guy. Queer is such a big spectrum and it’s open to everyone who identifies as that.”

No, actually; gay defines me.

I'm 100% gay...proudly G. A. Y. gay...and I neither reside in California nor am I remotely muscle-bound. This person wants their point of view to seem enlightened and expansive in the Seattle style, but it's just lazy -- and I guess any gay guy who isn't aligned to their wheezing old stereotype is erased.