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Cat Rules

Cat Rules

I Want Out—Does That Make Me Selfish?

I’ve been with my girlfriend for ten years. We moved in with each other three years ago. It’s not working for me. I love my girlfriend. She’s one of the kindest people I have ever met, slow to anger, and always listens first. We never fight, and I don’t want to break up with her. I…

by Dan Savage July 14, 2026 10:23 amJuly 14, 2026 10:23 am

Third Railed

Third Railed

Good Sex, Bad Boundaries

by Dan Savage July 7, 2026 9:45 am

Quickies

Quickies

You’re Never Too Old for Thirst Traps

by Dan Savage June 30, 2026 8:46 amJune 30, 2026 8:46 am

Cleaning House

Cleaning House

by Dan Savage June 23, 2026 11:15 amJune 23, 2026 11:15 am

Red Wedding

Red Wedding

Managing MAGA Family Members

by Dan Savage June 17, 2026 12:06 pmJune 17, 2026 2:04 pm

Gone Girl

Gone Girl

I Know He Loves Me, But…

by Dan Savage June 9, 2026 12:53 pmJune 17, 2026 2:19 pm

Quickies

Quickies

Wham, Bam, Just Ask Dan

by Dan Savage June 2, 2026 10:58 amJune 17, 2026 2:25 pm

Doom and Groom

Doom and Groom

Should I Feel Weird About It If He Doesn’t Feel Weird About It?

by Dan Savage May 26, 2026 12:47 pmJune 17, 2026 2:28 pm

Borders Crossed

Borders Crossed

Let’s Talk About Passport Bros

by Dan Savage May 19, 2026 2:52 pmMay 19, 2026 2:52 pm

Straight Up

Straight Up

To Love or Not Love Dick

by Dan Savage May 12, 2026 11:26 amMay 12, 2026 11:26 am

Quickies

Quickies

“Am I Weird for Masturbating with My Non-Dominant Hand?” and More than a Dozen Other Burning Questions

by Dan Savage May 5, 2026 12:31 pmMay 5, 2026 12:31 pm

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