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Jun 3, 2015 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on Savage Love.
SANE, your husband is married to someone who is using him for his money. Why wouldn't he be depressed?

FACTS: you don't need to be dating. You're not ready. Get therapy and determine why your wife stopped fucking you, why you were so gross in your cheating (20?) and why you can't deflect a simple, inappropriate question.
May 26, 2015 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on Savage Love.
@223 Jocass ~ I appreciate your perspective. I've seen that in relation to discussions about women's health and how the focus on vaginas, cervices and uteri is transphobic. I can understand including men who were born with and have those parts. I DON'T understand muting or caveating-to-death frank discussion because some women don't have them.

Meanwhile cancer kills, fertility is jeopardized (if allowed to discuss) and reproductive rights are assaulted (don't see many outside of ciswomen caring about that, hmmm).
May 26, 2015 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on Savage Love.
@118
Even something like "no racists" makes you look immature since, yeah, obviously no racists, but what's your purpose in putting on your profile?

Blanket statements never make you look good. (heh)


As a member of the most despised racial minority, I would LOVE to see "no racists" in a profile. "no Rethuglicans" would turn me the fuck on.
May 26, 2015 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on Savage Love.
I went on dates with a lot of guys from dating websites (200+) before I got married. Just writing to say that I agreed with your advice to the lesbian dating-site user. I agree that putting negative/exclusionary notes like "no trans women" or "no Asian guys" in a dating profile is a turnoff—and not just to the excluded group but to those who find those kinds of comments to be mean-spirited and narrow-minded. And are there really so many trans people out there that such a comment is even necessary? Are there really that many trans people out there causing massive confusion on dating websites? And honestly, if someone is trans and you wind up meeting them for coffee, what would be the big deal anyway? It's just coffee! I don't understand why this would be such a huge problem.

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Not everyone wants to waste their time going on 200+ dates. If you have that much time to date in DC, you're probably living off of your parents. The positive about online dating is that it has the potential to screen. I'm definitely on lists of "do not date__" due to size and race. It's all good. Why would I waste my time with someone who doesn't want me?

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Mar 18, 2015 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on I, Anonymous.
Best to stay out of it. You don't want the crazy one to know you're involved. This neighbor is not worth taking a bullet for especially he/she won't take common sense steps.
Mar 9, 2015 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on I, Anonymous.
I'm not sure why he let you slip away.
Feb 11, 2015 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on Savage Love.
I really think this kid is just trolling his mom. Even at 15, I knew when to lie (preserve the reality to which they are accustomed).
Aug 13, 2014 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on Savage Love.
So I asked four of my (adventurous) female friends if they would come to a small party at my apartment where my boyfriend would be naked.

EPIC, MAJOR FUCKUP

You should have asked how he wanted it to go down. You also need to not involve your friends in your sex life without his consent. BOUNDARIES.
Aug 13, 2014 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on Never Heard of 'Em.
When hip hop wasn't..."mainstream" this quality, depth and positivity was standard.

I recommend Ladybug's solo effort too. There was a time when there were a variety of female emcees who didn't have to play the "ride or die" role.
Aug 7, 2014 ALWAYS Clear Your Cache!!! commented on Savage Love.
You married young and for money ("nice life" says it all). You had little - if any - sexual experience and he was twice your age.

What you describe is a man who (1) is a terrible fuck and (2) doesn't like you...at all.

I don't know what culture you're from. I don't know if you fucked up by not having an education or being employed.

I do know, you don't want to throw the dice cheating on a man like this. He may beat the shit out of you.

Call an attorney.