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- Cowgirls, Inc. or Pony
- Meridian or Film Forum
- Bring It On or Stomp the Yard
- Folklife or A kick in the face while drowning in fish guts
- What piece of art would you steal?: The Ancient of Days by William Blake
Hybrid Vigor is sleepy. Sllleeeeeepppppppyyyyy......
Oct 3, 2012
Hybrid Vigor commented on I, Anonymous.
He may be your best friend in the whole world but you're not his. The sooner you realize who his is and you get the fuck away the better off you'll be.
Sep 27, 2012
Hybrid Vigor commented on I, Anonymous.
This reminds me of one of the most powerful commercials I've seen in a very long time. http://youtu.be/8VoAj_6iKTo
Sep 19, 2012
Hybrid Vigor commented on Savage Love.
I had an ex girlfriend who pulled the "feel more comfortable" bullshit whenI told her upfront I wanted an open relationship with a bisexual girl.
Took two years before she finally admitted that that wasn't what she wanted. By then I was emotionally invested and tried to make it work but it ultimately failed.
The kicker here? At one time she was the girlfriend of a prior girlfriend and I. Unfortunately, she wasn't honest from the very beginning and it caused a lot of heartache.
Bottom line: The cake and "feel more comfortable" are a lie.
Took two years before she finally admitted that that wasn't what she wanted. By then I was emotionally invested and tried to make it work but it ultimately failed.
The kicker here? At one time she was the girlfriend of a prior girlfriend and I. Unfortunately, she wasn't honest from the very beginning and it caused a lot of heartache.
Bottom line: The cake and "feel more comfortable" are a lie.
Feb 29, 2012
Hybrid Vigor commented on Savage Love.
Seems like Heartbroken's husband suffered from first time threesome excitement and pulled a noob move. It could also be indicative of general communication problems between the two of them. Or he could just be an abusive dick though really, we don't know.
I speak from experience. I've had a fair amount of threesomes in the past and made mistakes including violating boundaries in the heat of the moment. Since then I've learned that clear communication and a firm set of rules beforehand are critical. Even in a spontaneous encounter it's better to err on the side of caution.
Now, with my wife I follow her rules every time. I am just so grateful she's down to get freaky with another women. I realize she's being incredibly courageous and trusting. The very least I can do is not fuck that up. This is a lesson that Heartbroken's husband hasn't learned. He screwed up long term gain for short term pleasure and more importantly hurt his wife.
It could be Heartbroken's husband could redeem himself but it's up to her to tell him exactly how he fucked up. It sounds like she's suffering but not telling him what he did. If she wants to get over her hurt she needs to open up.
Rereading this, it sounds like I'm Team Dumbass Husband but I only have her side to go on. Maybe he's realized his mistake and apologized profusely. Maybe he hasn't. Who knows?
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I speak from experience. I've had a fair amount of threesomes in the past and made mistakes including violating boundaries in the heat of the moment. Since then I've learned that clear communication and a firm set of rules beforehand are critical. Even in a spontaneous encounter it's better to err on the side of caution.
Now, with my wife I follow her rules every time. I am just so grateful she's down to get freaky with another women. I realize she's being incredibly courageous and trusting. The very least I can do is not fuck that up. This is a lesson that Heartbroken's husband hasn't learned. He screwed up long term gain for short term pleasure and more importantly hurt his wife.
It could be Heartbroken's husband could redeem himself but it's up to her to tell him exactly how he fucked up. It sounds like she's suffering but not telling him what he did. If she wants to get over her hurt she needs to open up.
Rereading this, it sounds like I'm Team Dumbass Husband but I only have her side to go on. Maybe he's realized his mistake and apologized profusely. Maybe he hasn't. Who knows?
Feb 29, 2012
Hybrid Vigor commented on Pharmacists and Jesus Freaks.
None of these people should be allowed to practice for picking and choosing which medications they deem fit to dispense based on personal beliefs.
These pharmacists/pharmacies should have their license to practice revoked immediately.
These pharmacists/pharmacies should have their license to practice revoked immediately.
Oct 19, 2011
Hybrid Vigor commented on Savage Love.
Story #1 Been there done that but I was 18. This guy obviously hasn't had enough relationships to get through the douchebag phase as I did. Good call on the advice, Dan.
Story #2 Eighteen and living with her boyfriend? Fuck that. Now's the time to dump the safety and security and date a metric shit ton of people. Only then are you going to be able to form an opinion about what you do and don't want in a long term relationship.
On a separate note I think people shouldn't be allowed to get married until they're at least 30, 35 for men. Seriously, did y'all know what the hell you were doing before then? I sure didn't.
Story #2 Eighteen and living with her boyfriend? Fuck that. Now's the time to dump the safety and security and date a metric shit ton of people. Only then are you going to be able to form an opinion about what you do and don't want in a long term relationship.
On a separate note I think people shouldn't be allowed to get married until they're at least 30, 35 for men. Seriously, did y'all know what the hell you were doing before then? I sure didn't.
Sep 1, 2011
Hybrid Vigor commented on I, Anonymous.
Baconcat FTW!
From my experience the only town that seems to get public transit right is Portland.
From my experience the only town that seems to get public transit right is Portland.
Aug 31, 2011
Hybrid Vigor commented on Savage Love.
I think the first letter, while suspicious, isn't enough to say the man is cheating. Want to find out for sure? Hire a private investigator.
Aug 23, 2011
Hybrid Vigor commented on Savage Love.
Kids these days. I recently saw a cute little 14ish(at least they looked like kids) couple in Chicago. They had huge gauged earrings, tattoos, dyed hair, elegantly put together etc etc. I really felt sad for them cause where do you go from there? Petty soon it's cutting off fingers, nullo or god forbid Republicanism.
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