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OutInBumF

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I'm a gay man who spent 13 young, formative years in a fundamentalist christian cult,… more »

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What keeps you up at night?: my kids
What piece of art would you steal?: Michaelangelo's David
Folklife or A kick in the face while drowning in fish guts
What helps you sleep?: sex
Vampire or Zombie

OutInBumF Wasting time on Slog.

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May 20

OutInBumF commented on SL Letter of the Day: Did You Think I Was Going To Tell You Not To Come Out? (PLUS: Help Free Kate!).

@24- Not many, but enough, and when they are and are convicted, they often end up labeled as sex offenders for years.
I understand society's need to protect from sex offenders, but I detest the HUGE BROAD BRUSH we tar all degrees of sexual offense with.
This situation is revolting. Wanna bet the parents driving this are Good Christian folks?

May 16

OutInBumF commented on SL Letter of the Day: Living Discomfortably.

I agree with Catalina- put out or get out. When a guy (any age) creeps you out, a grown-up leaves the situation or stands up for himself. Brother.

May 10

OutInBumF commented on SL Letter of the Day: I'm Out.

I suspect he's in law school.

May 10

OutInBumF commented on Such Nice Dogs.

Slow SLOG day? It only takes a mention of the GD'd pit bulls (I'm with Dan on those beasts) and SLOG'ers are off to the races.
Ever hear of Pavlov's dog?

May 10

OutInBumF commented on SL Letter of the Day: Walk The Talk.

Thanks again, seandr! You crack me up.

May 8

OutInBumF commented on SL Letter of the Day: Bonus Advice for Too Soon To Quit.

@17- if the roles were reversed, the husband would be the bad guy for dumping her useless ass on the street. She's the one who jumped in fast and bought a fixer-upper. I cannot believe there weren't plenty of warning signs before the wedding that he was a loser, but wait- her love could make him whole. Gack!
I've spent a lifetime depressed and you don't treat your spouse the way her jerkwad husband's done her, and not expect to get your ass LEFT. Dan's advice was spot on, depressed or jerkwad- get out before she wastes another minute of her life.

May 8

OutInBumF commented on NPR's Ari Shapiro Is Coming to Seattle to Ask Me Questions About American Savage.

I want to know what color Dan's thong is before I buy tickets....

May 4

OutInBumF commented on SL Letter of the Day: No Magic Beans.

@27- Trying to raise a mate's libido to your level is a fool's errand. Imagine yourself trying to want more of something you don't want in the first place.
Differing libidos are always lowered to the lower one's eventually. She's just lucky she's only got 10 years into this and no children.
I've got a 42yo brother who'd love to date NIB, but then she'd be the low-libido'd one, whining about incessant demands for sex.

May 4

OutInBumF commented on Jason Collins Comes Out As Gay.

@8 FTW

May 4

OutInBumF commented on Cutting Remarks.

If one must be circumcised, having it done as an infant is WAY superior than as an adult. Infant circ's are done with specialized cup-like instruments designed to cover infant-sized penile coronas and create a good distance of exposed internal skin before the scar is made. Adult circ's don't have such tools, and can result in adhesions so close to the corona edge that parts of it are covered with the scar. My husband wishes to hell he'd never had his adult circ done, due to this.
I'd be opting for a plastic surgeon to do mine, were I to need one as an adult.