Apr 24, 2015
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Shapes and Sizes
Because that's how porn is categorized. Is it reductive and dumb? Sure. But it's not different than "big black cock porn," "Asian porn," etc. There is a market for a certain type of porn; that type of porn is described by its defining feature.
Dec 11, 2014
commented on Savage Love
I don't doubt that a lot of people hear statements about other people's genders or sexualities and tune out. I understand that it's this whole new thing that people feel like it's a lot of work to adjust to. I will admit that I am, myself, not entirely on board with a lot of these identities in terms of their objective validity.
I will also say, flat out, that my opinion is fucking irrelevant. There are too many people out there still saying that my feelings as a gay man are irrelevant, that I just want to be special, that I'm damaged in some way, that I'm wrong for defining myself as I do, for me to go to someone else and perpetuate that cycle. If you're a transgender asexual polyromantic troll otherkin who prefers the pronoun "Xks", cool. That's you. I hope you'll explain that to me at such a time when we have the opportunity and familiarity such that I'll remember it, and that if I do, on occasion, err in referring to you, that you'll remind me gently of your identity.