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Apr 9 college dude from madison commented on NCAA Division 1 Basketball Player Comes Out as Gay.
"This is the happiest I have ever been in my 22 Years of living...No more HIDING!!!...Just want to live life happy and play the sport that I love." -Gordon

This is the only answer you need. When people don't feel the weight of cultural pressure keeping them closeted long enough that coming out brings them enormous relief, it will stop being news.

Coming out is a big deal because being out is still a big deal.
Sep 3, 2013 college dude from madison commented on Savage Love.
@2, "Some-other-point-along-the-gender-spectrum" from earlier in his response.
Mar 25, 2013 college dude from madison commented on SL Letter of the Day: Closed Door Etiquette.
This is one of my all-time favorite Dan responses. Practical, a little sexy fun, and again, practical.
Jan 28, 2013 college dude from madison commented on SL Letter of the Day: Be a Little Selfish.
Uh! Again, these greatest-hits letters make me desperately want an update from the writer. I'm with Dan; I remember needing to excuse myself for a bit after reading this the first time too!
Nov 8, 2012 college dude from madison commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Hole Truth.
A wonderful couple did a hilarious AMA about their experience with this on Reddit about this recently. Fucking great stuff.

I would disclose after intercourse #1, after he's seen that you're totally functional and that nothing seems out of place. Might be a little mind-blowing for pillow talk, but a "hey, by the way..." would fit in pretty easily (hehe, fit in)
Sep 10, 2012 college dude from madison commented on SL Letter of the Day: Shock and Ew.
I've always assumed skid-marks are due to bad wiping strategy. As stated above, guys are going to have more bum hair and have to be more careful. Wiping while standing up is a bad option; sitting down and leaning over pulls your cheeks apart and gives you better access. (Also, consider shaving your bum! It feels fantastic and makes running feel soooo much comfier IMHO.)
Jul 3, 2012 college dude from madison commented on Other Advice Columnists Wonder Why They Get So Few Questions From Men.
@69 amazingly well put! You give me hope for my own aging/maturation process.
Jul 3, 2012 college dude from madison commented on Other Advice Columnists Wonder Why They Get So Few Questions From Men.
@24 That depends on how you're defining "warped shit." If you're talking about how the "mechanics" don't really reflect reality (anal without visible rimming/fingers/lube/foreplay etc.) or how a lot of mainstream porn ignores or over-simplifies female pleasure, then the "problem" is easily remedied by the guy knowing that porn is largely to visual stimulate men and not serve as an example of proper technique.

If by "warped" you mean kinks, then I don't know if I can agree with you. People are into what they are into
Dec 6, 2011 college dude from madison commented on SL Letter of the Day: Taste Testing.
I'm gonna go ahead and second @18

EricaP, you give me hope for continued, if not increasing, sexiness throughout life.
 
 

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