Apr 21, 2015
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: She Didn't Tell Him About Her Abortion When He Asked—But Did He Ask the Right Question?
I'm a man who's kind of been on the other end of something similar. It wasn't an undisclosed abortion, but it was somewhat traumatic and a kind of communication dissconnect.
It was really helpful and healthy for me to talk to a new girlfriend who had done something similar to the painful thing the old girlfriend had done (one of the things anyway). It helped me sort out and refine where I might find compassion for the old girlfriend, and where I still might feel hurt (but begin to move on). It was one of the things that brought me and the new girlfriend closer.
Sep 26, 2013
commented on Savage Love
CLIT, is it possible that your girlfriend could be exaggerating or faking some orgasms? She might need support to be able to talk openly about it.
Jan 11, 2012
commented on Respectfully Engaged: An Email Exchange
There are a million websites with reasoned arguments. This guy is actually an example of the shocking website leading him to the well reasoned argument..not that everyone gets to just knock on Dan's door and sit down for a chat.
Apr 20, 2011
commented on Currently Hanging: The Torsos of Claudia Fitch
Is this sculpture really meant to be beautiful? Our patriarchy doesn't produce a lot of sculptures of average male (chunky, hairy, middle-aged) midsections. I think.
But really it's the NO-BELLY-BUTTON and VAGINA-DRAIN that I DON'T LIKE. Anyway, that's me.
Feb 9, 2011
commented on What IF Bonham Had Lived?
I thought In Through the Out Door already sucked. But maybe the rest of the 80s suck was tied to that album sucking. I see a new alternate fiction genre emerging.