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Cowboys-in-Injuns

September 4, 2008

By Dan Savage

I'm a 38-year-old straight male in a long-term relationship. We have two children. My spouse and I have been physically disconnected for years. This led to some rather sleazy adulterate behavior on my part. We recently discussed the topic (at which time I informed her of my indiscretions); we have decided to remain together for our children because we work well together as parents and we are good friends. We have also decided to "open" our relationship. We both want the same thing: a companion of the opposite sex, a lover. My spouse has one. It is someone I am acquainted with, and I know him to be a responsible person. I have been looking, but no luck. I posted an ad online, but only managed to attract a Russian scammer. Some direction would be appreciated.

I should mention that I am very good-looking, in superb physical condition, charismatic, and highly educated.

All Too Human

Don't let modesty prevent you from listing modesty among your many qualities, ATH, as the chicks really dig that modesty stuff. Okay, so...

You're looking for a companion of the opposite sex, a lover, someone who understands you're committed to staying in your marriage for the sake of the kids, someone you know to be trustworthy, someone who gets the whole open-relationship concept...

How about the wife?

I know, I know: You two physically disconnected after the births of your children; you engaged in some sleazy adulterate behavior. But that's all out in the open now and you've decided to stay together because you're good parents, partners, and friends, and you've opened the relationship up to seek friends-with-benefits, as the straight people call 'em, or fuck buddies, as we gay people like to call 'em.

But why not have sex with each other, anyway?

Not exclusively, of course. It's important that you leave things open, ATH, because openness may help your wife realize that Person A can be married to Person B, have sex with Person C (and perhaps Persons D and E), and still be a loving spouse to Person B. If she's at all introspective, ATH, your wife will come to this realization because that's what she herself is doing. She's having sex with another man, while being a good and loving wife to you and a good and loving mom to her kids.

Once she has this realization—that love and commitment, and not sexual exclusivity, is the bond that you two share—she may be able to forgive you your pre-open-marriage adulterate behavior. And you may be able to restore your sexual connection, even if you never become completely sexually exclusive again.

In the meantime, ATH, there are many more frustrated married men seeking sex online than there are frustrated married women. But since your deal with the wife doesn't exclude mutual friends and acquaintances—look who she's with—then there's no need for you to troll online. Be open and honest with friends about your situation and your search. If you really are the superb, charismatic, and highly educated piece of ass you claim to be, you'll soon be fielding offers from single female friends and/or secretly frustrated married female friends.

For some reason, I have always found Native Americans to be sexually attractive. But the semidark skin and traditional breechcloth thing isn't easy to find in porn or real life. I was wondering if you had some pointers for someone with a bad case of Native American Jungle Fever.

Native Amateur

"The letter writer is correct," says Sherman Alexie, a Native American and a National Book Award–winning author who was willing to demean himself by giving me a quote. "There is a dearth of Native American porn."

But Alexie tells me that once, while hunting for antique board games, he typed "cowboy and Indian action figures" into Google and found his way to a site that featured U.S. Cavalry soldiers and loinclothed Indians smoking more than peace pipes. But that's all he's got, pornwise. As for real life...

"There's just no way your reader is going to find an Indian willing to put on a loincloth for sexual purposes," says Alexie. "Unless that Indian is a seriously damaged, culturally disconnected, politically unaware, and unsafe-sex-practicing slut."

I part ways with Alexie here. Not because I know more about Native Americans or Native American kinks. Goodness, no. But over the years, I've heard from too many healthy, politically aware, and sexually safe African Americans who dig role-playing slavery scenarios—and too many good Jews who get off on concentration-camp scenarios, and too many polite Canadians who adore clueless-American-tourist scenarios ("Ooh, ask me who our 'president' is again!")—to rule out the possibility that there are smart, safe Native Americans genuinely interested in role-playing cowboys-in-injuns out there somewhere. But they're gonna be rare, NA.

So what can you do to up your odds of finding the action you seek?

"If the letter writer is an attractive blond female," says Alexie, "she can head to the next powwow in the region where she lives, pick out a handsome fancydancer, and hit on him. She'll either get laid in the back of a casino-money-financed SUV or she'll get assaulted by a roving band of Indian women looking to protect our most precious and dwindling resource: Native American men."

Dan, I need to know. What bodily function is the opposite of an orgasm? Thanks a lot.

Could Use More

"Though it's not exactly a bodily function, the back spasm is the opposite of an orgasm," says Sherman Alexie, the National Book Award–winning author.

"Why did he send that question to Alexie?" some of my readers are no doubt asking themselves. That is a question only a thoughtless bigot would ask and I shouldn't dignify it with a response. But let's approach this as a teaching moment: I sent this question to Alexie because he is the father of two and, we can reasonably extrapolate, the haver of orgasms, which more than qualifies him. Back to Alexie:

"While the orgasm is the pleasurable release of stress, the back spasm is the painful reminder of collected and unexpelled stress. I am currently typing one-handed because I am shoving my fist deep into my lower back as some sort of half-assed pressure-point massage. Of course, since the U.S. has become a chair-and-computer culture, the number of people who are currently massaging their wrecked backs is vastly larger than the number who are massaging their sexual organs."

And when you pause to consider that all of the U.S. and most of Canada were basically built on top of a giant Indian graveyard, I'd say we're getting off easy with a little lower-back pain.

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Posted by deb on September 5, 2008 at 7:02 AM · Report
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Depending on where Native Amateur lives, he or she could try to volunteer or get a paid job at an company or non-profit on or serving a reservation. I don't know if trolling casinos is such a good idea.
Posted by Robin on September 5, 2008 at 7:59 AM · Report
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Trolling pow-wows is a good idea though. Even if your local tribe is mostly white-looking, there will be plenty of dancers, musicians, and traders at the pow-wow who have the traditional looks, and I'm sure they can't all be taken. I'm Native American, but my Norwegian ancestry overpowers the Mohegan, leaving me looking pretty white. Otherewise I'd ask for the writer's gender and location, and maybe get lucky.
Posted by pastanaut on September 5, 2008 at 8:55 AM · Report
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You know how sometimes when you are quenching your thirst, and then after you take in a huge mouthfull of liquid and then for some unknown reason you have an uncontrollable urge to cough, and in stead of coughing and expelling the drink from your mouth, you force yourself to swallow the entire mouthfull of liquid first, very painfully, and then cough.....I would say that is the opposite of an orgasm.
Posted by Brent on September 5, 2008 at 9:16 AM · Report
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I could swear I saw the first letter in a previous column. Not that I'm going to look, or anything. But damn that first letter (and Dan's response) sounds so familiar.
Posted by Tracy on September 5, 2008 at 9:48 AM · Report
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Dan-

Was this your idea? It's a pretty good idea!!

Lucie
Posted by Lucie on September 5, 2008 at 11:16 AM · Report
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The first question and answer appeared on Slog, so that explains why it looks so familiar. Of course, there's one little wrinkle in Savage's advice: what if the wife isn't interested?
Posted by keshmeshi on September 5, 2008 at 12:10 PM · Report
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Now I can virtually bitch-slap Dan when he messes up!!
Posted by Annabelle on September 5, 2008 at 12:18 PM · Report
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Why dosent monogamy exist anymore? Why cant people just be honest and ask there partner for what they need and want?
Posted by theang on September 5, 2008 at 12:58 PM · Report
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What are your thoughts on Palin?
Posted by rachel on September 5, 2008 at 1:19 PM · Report
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Thanks for adding Sherman Alexie's input. I'm a rabid fan of his work, and I found his answer to the racist question the perfect blend of humor and f**k you. If the Native Amateur wants porn, he should adapt what the Hollywood westerns used to do: get a lily white person to dye their hair black, put on a fringed strap-on, and press 'record.'
Posted by Lisa on September 5, 2008 at 2:12 PM · Report
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I do not know any jew that would dream of a concentration camp sex scene....
Posted by Jules on September 5, 2008 at 2:51 PM · Report
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I liked the one about the "Injuns"! haha
Posted by David on September 5, 2008 at 3:46 PM · Report
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You can ask but you can't ask someone to be what they are not. Especially if they're pausing the action to ask questions like: "Is this alright?" "Am I doing it right?"
Posted by oolongtee on September 5, 2008 at 4:32 PM · Report
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Sorry, Jules, but I had the misfortune to (very briefly) date a Jewish man who liked to imagine I was a big blonde German dominatrix in an SS uniform, for that whole submission thing. Not my cup of bratwurst.
Posted by fifi on September 5, 2008 at 6:49 PM · Report
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As a connoisseur of Indian girls, I think Mr. Alexie's advice is pretty accurate. He is like the Native American Dan Savage when it comes to stuff like that. Funny and dead on.
Posted by payaso on September 6, 2008 at 7:23 AM · Report
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Jules - Not only have I met some, but they were willing to pay handsomely for it.
Posted by Voyeuse on September 6, 2008 at 7:53 AM · Report
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Sorry, but there are more people massaging their sex organs than massaging their sore backs. There are more males, 99% of whom do so, than people who own computers. Or, for that matter, chairs. And yes, you'll have noticed this doesn't even include the females.
Zing! ^_^
Posted by dcd on September 6, 2008 at 8:47 AM · Report
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Problem is, most of us honkies don't know how to tell a "healthy, politically aware" Native from an unhealthy, politically unaware one, because we ourselves may not be the sharpest tools in the box when it comes to understanding Indigenous definitions of "health" and "political awareness". If we're going to obey the campfire rule and "leave them better than we found them", I think we need to begin with educating ourselves about the politics and health movements within Indigenous culture, so we can avoid contributing to unhealthy manifestations of Cowboy/Injun fetish. And I agree, Dan, that healthy manifestations of this fetish on BOTH sides will be vastly outnumbered by unhealthy manifestations. However, since a major complaint of Indigenous folks about us white folks is that our stereotypes of Natives are loud enough to drown out any knowledge of Indigenous realities, I would guess that there are more unhealthy white people with the fetish than there are Indigenous, just going by the numbers.
Posted by fireweed on September 6, 2008 at 9:41 AM · Report
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Mr. Alexie-- if you replace the chair in front of your computer with an exercise ball, you may be able to sit for a long time without lower back pain. I used to spend 8 hours a day in front of a computer, and that solved the problem for me.
Posted by katya on September 6, 2008 at 10:26 AM · Report
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What was the bigoted part? I don't get it. (I'm serious. Is it an American joke?) Post a link or explanation please.
Posted by E on September 6, 2008 at 1:45 PM · Report
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Holy $hit, Dan, this guy's like a seriously respected writer. I'm impressed! Sheesh, who's your next guest writer, Salman Rushdie (that's actually not a bad idea...)
Posted by GG1000 on September 6, 2008 at 2:24 PM · Report
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Native Amateur should find herself a nice Mexican boy with dark skin and "native" looks. Plenty of us would be willing to put on a loincloth and dance around a fire for her, right before we spear her with our big shaft. Oh wait, we've probably all been deported from her area...doh! I guess you're all stuck with your own Indians...
Posted by jack on September 6, 2008 at 2:49 PM · Report
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Yeah, I don't get the opposite of an orgasm joke either....google isn't any help. Barfing?
Posted by JustWondering on September 6, 2008 at 3:24 PM · Report
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As a Jew girl, I don't exactly find concentration camp scenarios sexy... but tight S.S. uniforms on the other hand, well....
Go Dan! Not all of us who fantasize about S.S. uniforms are self-hating Jews. I'm sure some of us are but hey, you take what you can.
Posted by e.j. on September 7, 2008 at 7:28 AM · Report
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Damn, Dan! Sherman Alexie! He actually wrote some Native American porn, I recall. Featured a very graphic ass-fucking. He's a good go-to guy. The opposite of an orgasm for me is a dental abscess that requires a root canal. Any dental experience is a bad one, even with all the nitrous in the world.
Posted by Josh Carrollhach on September 7, 2008 at 12:11 PM · Report
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Why are people assuming that it's a girl who has the Native American fetish? Historically, white men intermarried with Native American females, not vice versa. So any advice on how the white guy can score the Native girl? I'd say again, the Mexicanas are your best chance, depending on where you live.
Posted by Corazon on September 7, 2008 at 2:50 PM · Report
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Native American porn? Well, as a technicality, romance novels don't "self-identify" as porn, but there are half a million or so romance novels (most of them complete with at least two graphic sex scenes) out there, starting with "Savage Love" by Cassie Edwards (http://www.amazon.com/Savage-Love-Leisure-Paperback/dp/0843950374/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1220894515&sr=1-2)

On the other hand, I really don't recommend them. To say they are politically incorrect would only be the beginning of a complaint. But still, one shouldn't judge too harshly on what lights another's fires.
Posted by meep on September 8, 2008 at 10:24 AM · Report
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I've got the answer:

We all know that an orgasm is the temporary muscle spasm(s) of a reproductive organ, creating a pleasurable sensation, often involving discharge or secretions.

So, what would be the opposite of this? A lengthy, non-pleasurable, dry, sustained calm from an a non-organ that's focused on non-production.

In other words: A headache.

And I believe this is the exact reason used by some partners to turn down sex: "Not tonight, honey: I have a headache!"
Posted by Sean on September 8, 2008 at 10:40 AM · Report
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I can fist myself far and hard enough to rub my aching back whilst I type. It's called skill.
Posted by Mr. Poe on September 8, 2008 at 2:18 PM · Report
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Yo, ATH, while cheating on your committed partners is scummy no matter your flavor of monogamy or polyamory, there are plenty of polyamory communities online that won't try to shame you out of the choice you and your wife made together. Don't waste your time posting ads. Find a good poly group online and they can be a wealth of wonderful and unbiased information. Dan, I'm disappointed that your answer comes off as a lecture against open relationships and the poly lifestyle. Maybe it could work for them. It's worked for hundreds, if not thousands, of couples. And who knows... maybe it can eventually improve their own relationship and help them build a better sex life.
Posted by Anathema on September 8, 2008 at 4:15 PM · Report
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Dan, you did not come off very well today on the show. Your attacking of the children lowers your image.
If nothing else have a heart for Palin's kids. Be something better than you've shown, not a caddy, crude gay guy that needs to attack minors on national television, talk about sex in such an explicit degrading way, you pretty much suck.
Posted by d.m. on September 8, 2008 at 6:03 PM · Report
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In addition to my last comment, I didn't mean to say you suck, because that lowers me beneath what I'm trying to convey to you.
I just want you to realize that Hollywood, Politics is not real life.
Love and decency towards people, grace and maturity is where it's at.
Try and get some of those qualities.
good luck
Posted by d.m. on September 8, 2008 at 6:06 PM · Report
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I adore you!!!!
Did you know that Sarah Palin's small business was called Rouge Cou???
In French...RED NECK
Posted by Shelly on September 9, 2008 at 10:38 AM · Report
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Anathema: I have to agree with your analysis of Dan's (apparent) attitude towards poly relationships. For shame Dan, for shame.
Another suggestion for ATH would be to check out the pickup community. It's a little more difficult than meeting people through your social circle, but gaining the skills to meet and seduce women in a relatively short amount of time is definitely worth it.
Posted by abcd_z on September 9, 2008 at 2:07 PM · Report
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What about someone that just 'appears' Native American?
Posted by lori on September 9, 2008 at 3:23 PM · Report
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Sherman Alexie is great author!
Posted by Fishy on September 9, 2008 at 4:11 PM · Report
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Hey Savage I found your long lost Twin Brother.

Its João Barone probably Brazil most famous Rock Drummer. You guys are like twins (he is 2 years older though). He is an amazing drummer plays in a band called Paralamas which have sold millions of records since 1983.

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Posted by Lou on September 9, 2008 at 4:58 PM · Report
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I fucking love how you owned Bill Maher's show friday night. You're brilliant. I agreed with you 100%. You so goddamn get it. THANK YOU.
Posted by flashlass on September 9, 2008 at 7:47 PM · Report
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I would bet the Native Fetishist is a gay man.

All I can think of when I read this article is the head-dress wearing member of The Village People.
Posted by Madge on September 9, 2008 at 10:40 PM · Report
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Palin is Good News and Bad News. Mostly Bad.
The idea of citizen legistlators--moms, auto mechanics, hydraulic engineers...anyone but lawyers--is a refreshing idea. But Palin's beliefs are chilling. As everyone's probably heard by now, Palin tried to get some books banned from the Wasilla library. When the librarian wouldn't budge, Palin tried to have her fired. Only civic protest got Her Honor to back off. Sarah Palin truly believes that Alaska's much ballyhoed 30 billion dollar gas pipeline is part of God's plan, as is the Iraq War. (You can access a video of Palin's speech to her former Church in Wasilla via the Huffington Post). Believe it or not, Palin still isn't convinced that Global Warming is a result of industry and she believes that creationism should be taught in school. Of course, she is against abortion. She is very charismatic and a great performer, but she's the devil in disguise. Not quite as bad as Cheney, but closing in.
Posted by Billy Oakland on September 9, 2008 at 11:23 PM · Report
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I was highly disappointed NOT to find the referenced Cowboy and Indian "peace pipe" pics when I googled the same term. However, there are action figures, if your author friend is still looking.
Posted by Jonathan on September 10, 2008 at 8:54 AM · Report
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You should get Sherman Alexie hooked on writing sex advice. I bet he'd be great at it.

(Maybe not in your league, but hey you've had a lot of practice. Using Alexie for the third question was astoundingly brilliant.)
Posted by sandhawke on September 11, 2008 at 3:01 PM · Report
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I almost could have written the first letter myself (except the modesty part!). That was me a couple years ago, except that it was my wife's "adulterate" behaviors that launched things. Step One is agreeing on an open marraige structure. As the writer points out, step two is actually putting it into practice which is a lot easier for the woman than the man. Especially if you want to stay ethical (not leading on a single person that you might be or become "available, or seducing a coupled person with no prior desire to stray). But with perseverence, time, and an open-mind regarding methods (online ads, swinger clubs, risking a sexual harassment charge at work to guage interest), it has worked out nicely for us. Wife and I both have a nice array of occasional partners to draw upon (so to speak). We even try to set up concurrent dates so we can leave the house together and maintain illusions for our kids.
Posted by John on September 12, 2008 at 9:54 AM · Report
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With all due respect to Mr. Alexie, I don't see how an Indian in a breehclout is more "seriously damaged, culturally disconnected, [and] politically unaware" than an Indian wearing cowboy boots, a cowboy hat, and jeans - which, btw, is the traditional garb of the genocidal white men who forced his people onto reservations and tried to destroy their language and culture.

Although I suppose one could argue that submission to the dominant culture (as expressed by clothes) is, in fact, a sign of being politically aware and culturally connected.
Posted by WTF? on September 13, 2008 at 12:18 AM · Report
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"Native Amateur", though its not clear what your gender is, something about your note gives me the impression that you're female. Regardless, given your fantasy, you should probably try tracking down the 80's movie "Wild, Wild West" with Hyapatia Lee. There have been a few porn stars over the years who have claimed at least partial native ancestry, but very few full-blooded.
For whatever reason, most have been Cherokee, including Hyaptia Lee, who is arguably the most famous, and who brings alot of enthusiasm and sensuality to her films. Your note made me immediately remember one I saw years ago (sorry, can't recall the title) in which she and a relatively "native-looking" man dressed in appropriate deerskins made very sexy love inside a tee-pee.
It was HOT HOT HOT!!!
Posted by funilingus on September 13, 2008 at 4:59 PM · Report
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Native American and Alaska Native women are more than 2.5 times more likely to be raped or sexually assaulted than other women in the United States in general. Mostly by non-Native men.

http://www.amnestyusa.org/violence-against-women/maze-of-injustice/page.do?id=1021163&n1=3&n2=39&n3=1410
Posted by JD on September 13, 2008 at 5:06 PM · Report
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Well the native americans thing certainly isn't that rare, i mean lord look at the plethora of romance novels on the subject. You might also try finding a nice hispanic boy, my boyfriend is Peurto-Rican, Jewish, and Asian... a lot of people say he looks native american.

Though, I swear my un-PC kink is weirder... I get off on Jews in Nazi uniform, playing Nazi to my prisoner... I'm caucasian. Weird I suppose, and undeniably un-pc, though i do feel weirdly gratified knowing the very idea would piss hitler off if he were still alive
Posted by Miss D on September 13, 2008 at 6:51 PM · Report
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I adore Sherman Alexie.

That is all.
Posted by Lucy on September 14, 2008 at 12:07 AM · Report
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Alexie's answer to what is the opposite of an orgasim is pretty darned close. His assessement of holding stress in the low back is accurate, to a point. The pain could also be associated with disc problems: herniation or rupture or narrowing of the spinal canal. Most people hold their stress in their neck and shoulders, though. As a massage therapist, I hope he's gotten the continued pain checked out by a medical professional.
Posted by massagi on September 14, 2008 at 11:35 AM · Report
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OMG Dan! Discussing a native american fantasy in the context of slavery roles or concentration camp fantasies? Ick. These are demeaning roles that should elicit horror and tap into some of the darkest chapters of human history. In contrast, a simple native American fantasy could be no different than a cowboy fantasy (an über icon, ja?). What gay man hasn't seen depictions of scantily clad natives (be they American or south pacific) and thought "dang!"?
Posted by endolphins on September 14, 2008 at 2:11 PM · Report
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In defense of my own post about Hyapatia Lee, the scene I was referencing was in no way demeaning,
and the clothing and setting were at least relatively accurate historically. It was intended to portray a wedding night ritual that I have heard of from other sources, though I suppose that doesn't mean its not legend...the idea that both spouses would take their new lover on a sort of "guided tour" of their body, placing their hand over the spouses hand and showing them where they liked to be touched and with how much pressure. The video was a "couples movie" intended to appeal to both genders and have more emotional depth. I found it one of the most romantic and erotic sex-scenes I've ever seen. Maybe it was the lighting, the fur bedding, maybe time has changed my memmory of it. And admittedly, I've always liked long, lustrous black hair.
Posted by funilingus on September 14, 2008 at 5:32 PM · Report
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My thoughts on Palin:

http://www.michaelpalinforpresident.com/
Posted by BW on September 14, 2008 at 6:58 PM · Report
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I love Sherman Alexie. He's absolutely right about the back spasm. In the 8 months since I've had an orgasm (and my daughter is 8 months old. coincidence?), I've had a back spasm every other day.
Posted by mom on September 17, 2008 at 11:27 AM · Report
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TROLLING THE LOCAL POW WOWS ARE GOOD ESPECIALLY IF YOU YOU ARE ON THE WEST COAST OR IN THE SOUTHWEST ...
Posted by jdemon90 on September 18, 2008 at 11:08 AM · Report
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hypatia lee and there are other NA porn actresses....as far as dudes...i dunno but Native guys are easy...buy them a frybread and beverage, laugh at his jokes....and there you go...
Posted by frybread on September 23, 2008 at 12:18 PM · Report
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Theang: monogamy totally exists. For those that want it & have a partner who wants it too. BUT, many times folks will get into a relationship & be too scared to ask for what they really want for fear of their partner being grossed out or turned off..how'd Dan put it..the "what?" moment. But you read Dan's column so you know that...:)
Posted by Eva Hopkins on September 24, 2008 at 10:56 AM · Report
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I love Sherman Alexie's writing style and his stories. I am thrilled that he is part of this column. It's unexpectedly awesome.
Posted by scuffy on October 2, 2008 at 8:37 AM · Report
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funilingus: that movie with Hyapatia Lee sounds awesome and hot.
Posted by Sarah in Brooklyn on October 2, 2008 at 9:26 PM · Report
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I can't believe Sherman Alexie said that stuff. He rocks.
Posted by mizkitteh on November 6, 2008 at 9:51 PM · Report
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Cowboys-in-Injuns

If this was about a black person, you may as well have used the “N” word. As with so much of the Native American past, it’s been forgotten, including and especially the use of derogatory terms. The last time I was referred to as an “Injun”, I tore into the bastard. He may as well have called me a stupid ‘Savage’. Ignorance is absolutely no excuse. Blacks are Blacks, Whites are Whites, Native Americans are Native Americans, and so on. PLEASE STOP using “alternate” terms when “labeling” a people.
Posted by Iammyselfanativeamerican on November 11, 2008 at 2:54 PM · Report
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i love native americans i always have sexually and spiritually i have the utmost respect for the elders
Posted by caroline on November 15, 2008 at 4:19 PM · Report
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Native American Porn: www.NDNgirls.com :)

http://www.NDNgirls.com

There's some real naked native american girls to scratch your itch buddy. Problem solved! :)
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