I don’t know who you are, and I’m certain she doesn’t either, but my roommate came home drugged and delirious, freaking out and out of her mind. I’m not sure what sense of morality you were able to overcome to believe that drugging a girl at a bar is a good decision, but I’m sure you’ve accomplished it before, you fucking waste of life. The type of person that does these things views life as a system of tedious mechanisms pushing forward to the moment you enter a drunken woman’s vagina. Your sense of empathy is that of a viper, though I shouldn’t insult the serpent, as at least it does its business out of necessity. You should be drugged, tied up, and gang-raped for the damage I’m certain you’ve accomplished in past operations. I’ve known too many girls who’ve been through this and act as if it’s just something that happens. It should never be viewed as such, and your kind should be brought to justice. You sick fucking vultures. May the infections in your mind materialize to rot your dick off.
—Anonymous
You people with all your “personal experience” stories are all 100% full of shit. Saying that someone raped me by drugging my drink at a bar is like saying someone kidnapped me on a motorcycle. Just think about the logistics involved with trying to get a passed out woman home from the bar with you. I know from experience it’s damn hard to get a drunken best friend home from the bar in that condition.
#48 thought he had a point but it looks as if his only REAL experience was at a PARTY where I will concede THIS IS WAY MORE LIKELY TO HAPPEN. BTW #48 you are a total FUCKIN MORON and have NEVER tended bar.
The bottom line is this folks, If someone actually drugged your drink at a bar, it’s because they hate your freakin guts and want you gone in the most embarrassing way possible.
Poisoning a drink (same as drugging) is a FELONY and would be investigated to the fullest if it could be proven. Most of the time it can’t and that’s a fact.
What happens at private parties and homes or apts is another matter all together.
i was drugged, taken out of a club, raped & left for dead in an alley. i woke up with no memory in the hospital. i had alot to say about that experience, but the person who has been trolling so cruelly on here has me in tears. And has triggered every hateful, shameful feeling of that experience. You are an evil, cruel human being.
@53
Fuck you, cocksucker. I’ve probably been tending bar for longer than you’ve been old enough to know how to roofie your own chick to bag. I really don’t know what’s so difficult to get about this. It happens. Does it happen a shit ton? No. Does it happen like every once in awhile some dickhead massacres a bunch of ravers in a capitol hill house, yes — and far more frequently than that — as capitol hill massacres thankfully, are a very rare rarity. Perhaps because you don’t tend bar yourself, you don’t see the change in early to late night clientele. Perhaps you don’t know the shit show some nights can put on.
And also, fuck you and your fucking disparagement of “personal experience” bullshit. Seriously fuck you. I’ve seen it first hand you cocksucker. I was there. I told the story, just like the originating I, anon told their story.
There aren’t too many “logistics”, bro, in order to get something like this done. There aren’t a whole lot of logistics to a lot of shit when you’re poisoning someone by surprise, especially when they’re on their own. Fuck, you’re a fucking condescending retard with absolutely not a clue in the world how “late night” works. Fucking completely retarded amateur who has no fucking clue.
@55
You’re a good person. Don’t let the bastards grind you down.
@55: I’m so sorry that happened to you! Hang in there.
@57: I second that!
Hey, can those of you who have had problems being drugged post what bar/club you were at? People are creatures of habit and these rapists probably frequent the same place(s) That might help those who have not been roofied stay unroofied? Thanks
Mine was several years ago & in Portland. i wasn’t the only girl drugged that night, & this person actually went to several different clubs in the following weeks drugging girls drinks. i didn’t hear about any of it until later, but they did start putting flyers up in girls bathrooms warning them that their was a predator on the loose. i don’t know if he did to anyone else what he managed to do to me. My situation was not reported as a rape. In fact, i was treated by the hospital staff as though i had done something wrong by doing drugs. i was told how i had almost killed myself, etc. It wasn’t until later, when i had been able to talk to the bartender & the person who found me & got me to the hospital that i was made aware of what had happened.
Just be aware & keep your friends close. Alcohol & GHB can be a lethal combination. i had lost my bowels, was blue & with almost no pulse when i was found. i had been drinking beers & had left them at the table to go dance a few times. He got me out of the bar by telling the bartender, who i knew, that i was ill & had had too much to drink & he was going to get me a cab home. He had been sitting at my table sporadically, so it wouldn’t have seemed odd. It isn’t the club that you go to. Predators move with ease in many different environments. And it’s truly sad that we can’t leave a simple freakin’ drink to go dance, but that is the reality. What’s hard is that if we are out drinking, having fun, getting tipsy & forgetting the world, a bit, we have to worry about being drugged & raped. It shouldn’t be like this. So, my best advice is keep your friends close. Predators are less likely to approach when there is a pack. Peace.
Another fake i,Anonymous
I’m sorry for your roommate and hope that the trauma fades soon, leaving only a bad memory and a firm resolution never, ever to accept a drink that she did not see prepared and to never leave her drink unattended-not to go to the can, not to go dance to her favorite song.
Minding your drink carefully (or taking turns with a trusted female friend for bathroom breaks, dancing) and discarding beverages that you have lost track of are the best ways to enjoy a night out without becoming prey.
I once had a drink tampered with- it was terrifying to have simply lost almost 9 hours- and the only reason I can feel safe in saying I was not assaulted while drugged is that I woke up on a friend’s couch, fully clothed without a button out of place or even a tiny run in my hose. My friend told me I had come in at about 11 (only an hour or so after I’d gone to the bar), which means that I must have known something was wrong and been lucky enough to get to safety on autopilot but I shudder to think what *could* have happened to me and how many others have not been as fortunate as I was in both my apparently very good survival instincts and in having had a totally safe haven only 3 blocks away.
@48: I’m sorry that happened to you, too! And you’re right, It’s NOT okay! None of it’s okay.
Good grief, Charlie Brown, and people ask me why I don’t do the bar scene! It’s cheaper, safer, and more convenient to get wasted at home. Been there, done that, and additionally, I don’t want to get roofied.
I wonder what bartenders think about shit like this.
Was this at a bar on Cap Hill that hosts karaoke every night, and has a name that kind of sounds like The Croissant, but isn’t?
Drinking does not cause rape. Being openly sexual or liking sex does not cause rape. Being dressed a certain way or being in a certain place does not cause rape. Rape causes rape.
Yes, would that we all lived in risk-free bubbles and took all precautions to prevent all crimes. Would that that actually worked (and it wouldn’t). But ultimately a crime is not the fault of the victim for failing to prepare enough, for failing to take arbitrarily enough precautions that you decide. If that were the cause you could show me any crime and I could say, “Well, person A did X, Y, and Z, but they didn’t take these other five arbitrary precautions I think they should have.”
Crime is the fault of the criminal for, um, COMMITTING A CRIME.
People get drunk all the time, not all those times lead to rape. Yes, being inebriated can make it more difficult to fight off an assailant, and perhaps the rapist will target women who appear to be weaker. But ultimately it doesn’t matter. If you don’t drink, the rapist will just use force. Or date-rape drugs. Or coercion. They will try to make you feel ashamed for being dressed “sluttily” or not being a virgin or being “at a bad place”. As if you were asking for it. But no one asks to be raped.