I used to be pissed because I couldn’t get what I wanted. You
changed everything. I always liked to watch my girlfriend get fucked by
other guys. My girlfriends rarely got this and maybe would do it once
or not at all—and didn’t stick around afterward, whatever the
case. But oh my God, you get it. I know you would rather be alone with
other guys sometimes, but you let me come along and watch and play with
you—at least when the guy isn’t too weirded out. And I know
sometimes you don’t want to fuck these guys, but you do it just for me
so I can watch and get massively turned on by seeing you come for
another guy. Shit, I know you can be a real slut (in a good way) and
like being with the other guys, but you don’t have to bring me along,
but you do, just because you love me. That’s amazing. I have never been
happier. (I know this isn’t a rant, but it sure needed to be
anonymous.) recommended

42 replies on “I, Anonymous”

  3. You know what lasts a long time? Herpes. But good for you two. (“sometimes you didn’t want to fuck those guys…”? How hard is it to find a guy she DOES want to fuck? That’s creep, yo.)

  4. Yay kinky sex! I’m happy for you both but I am so confused why this would need to be anonymous. Seems like you already discuss it…

  5. I think it’s anonymous because he can’t shout it from the rooftops and tell all their friends. It’s their shared secret – aside from the string of random men she fucks. He just wanted us all to know exactly how happy he is without getting weird looks at the next backyard bbq. But really – sometimes she doesn’t want to fuck them but does it just so you can watch? To what degree does she NOT want to? If it’s just boring and she grins and bears it, okay, whatever. But if she is compromising her own standards for fear of losing you, not cool. It’s anonymous because you’re ashamed/don’t want to be judged by anyone you know. Not because it’s necessarily shameful.

  6. Wow, it’s nice to see you display how one-sided the giving in this relationship is. I can see why this is anonymous, if you said this to her face, she might realize she can do better and leave you

  10. I hate seeing a guys cock (other than mine), and even more than that I hate seeing a guy’s cock inside of my girlfriend. you’re gay by proxy anon

  13. Wow, jealous much? I can see that the kind of people who read I, Anonymous are just as bitter and hate-mongering as I suspected. Hope you enjoy living the rest of your life being jealous of other peoples happiness. I say, good for you, anon. I hope you and your woman have a long, happy relationship.

  16. I’m weirded out by “I know sometimes you don’t want to fuck these guys, but you do it just for me”… How many, how often, how does she express her wishes not to do this, and how do you get her to do it anyway?

  19. Yeah, dude. She’s doing it for YOU.

    She’s not auditioning your replacement or anything like that.

    Deluded much?

    Punchington Out.

  23. I am anonymous – and I am not sure there is any point in this because does anybody come back after they post comments, but I thought I would add just a little back-story for those who doubt or misunderstand. My girlfriend and I are sex-positive and swingers. We have always had other sex partners in our life and when we met this was just a given. After we fell in love, our honest discussion of our kinks led to this. It’s a true story. And I NEVER force it on her. She knows I want it and she offers it freely.

  26. Somewhere there is the sound of one hand clapping. That hand belongs to Dan Savage. Cuckholding is a kink he has written about numerous times. If you and the lady are both into it and happy, I read this as a published valentine.

  27. that is not safe for your girl, if you love her you need to be keeping her safe and AWAY from other men, WTF is wrong with you?!

  28. What the hell is up with all the prudish comments? Did you people forget what newspaper/website you’re reading? Maybe you should stick to Deseret News.

  30. I wonder how many of the people posting here that it’s “gay” or “one-sided” or “she’s auditioning your replacement” would feel if she were banging women for him. Oh right, that’s okay. I forgot in our culture women can be selfless and slutty to please their man, but a man who gets off on a relationship slanted to the woman’s pleasure is a freak and should be shunned (or called gay).

    Before you say “not me” or “that’s not how it is anymore” ask yourself two questions: (1) How many times have you personally had a sexual experience where the woman pleasured the man and got no physical reciprocation? (e.g., she gives him a blow job but he doesn’t pleasure her in any way). How many times have you personally had a sexual experience where the woman was given sexual pleasure but the man left without orgasm not because he was having performance issues, but because he wanted to focus on her? [I can say that very few of my female friends have experienced the latter…even once…in their lifetimes. And I have friends from all over the globe.]

    (2) Do you have the same reaction if you go back and re-read this letter and put in “other women” instead of “other guys” ? I’m sure you won’t.

    At root, the reason a lot of people press the “gay panic” hot button is because of misogyny. Even people who think the are “liberal” or “progressive” or “liberated” still harbor a lot of these beliefs.

  32. should anyone give a shit WHAT anon’s sex pref is? DOES IT EVEN MATTER? I would love to be the one fucking the gf and then he can blow load on my face after she comes. What does that make me and WHO CARES?

  35. I’d totally fuck someone else if that’s the biggest best present my sweetie could want. I get it — I might not do that other person on my own but with added incentive I can see how the hotness increases and I’d jump in the sack. Not whores. She’s a gift giver.

  36. I say more power to you. I can’t say I fully understand the cuckold fixation, but if you’re both into it, fucking fantastic!

  39. Definition of a whore: 1. Someone who is getting more action than you are getting, arousing a surge of angry jealousy. 2. Someone who is doing it with someone who you wish you were doing it with, arousing angry jealousy. 3. Someone who the person you have a crush on flirted with, instead of the crush having flirted with you. Causing feelings of angry jealousy.

  40. Well, if she’s happy and you’re happy, go for it, as long as you both get checked monthly and she gets her annual pap smear. HPV is a nasty fucker and cervical cancer can sneak up on you way faster than a 20-something mind can wrap their head around, generally. Just try to accommodate her weird fetishes too, if she has any, since she’s accommodating yours.

  41. I was only a little bit slutty and I contracted chlamydia. Even with condom usage. Sigh. I wish you well – it sounds like a damn fun life. Wish it wasn’t so damn risky.

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