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While you guys are going all apeshit, you're missing the big news:

http://spifflines.blogspot.com/2010/05/j…

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While you guys are going all apeshit, you're missing the big news:

James Franco explores the "Forbidden Zone"

http://spifflines.blogspot.com/2010/05/j…

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He says he has asked his God for forgiveness. The same God which told him it's okay to kill LGBT.

AFAIC, he's still a coward. Now, if he truly believes that God is LOVE, then demonstrate it by asking forgiveness of the people whom he so recently* condemned. The Lord's Prayer is pretty specific on this point: Forgive our trespasses _as we forgive_ those who trespass against us. If you're not forgiving those you hate, then God cannot forgive you.

*15 years is big to the 20-something crowd, but it's bupkiss once you're in your 40's.
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Nice letter, but what do you have against capitalization, Dan?
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While I find the Christian life style repugnant, I would never countenance violence against Christians. The whole feeding them to the lions thing was a bad idea.
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The very definition of "slow Saturday with NOTHING to do" is hooting and hollering all day about a 15 year old sermon by some yahoo in W Va.....
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In other news, Pres Bill Clinton signed DADT.
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"Stupid and immature I'll give him—but young?"

I mean, come on- next thing you know he'll be licking bathroom doorknobs.....
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Wasn't that doorknob thing 10 years ago?

How young were you 10 years ago Dan, 42 or something?...
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Doorknob Danny; on licking doorknobs, keyboards and toilet seats in Gary Bauer's Iowa HQ in 2000:
"—what can I say? I was young and foolish—"

"Stupid and immature I'll give him—but young?"

http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archive…
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I'm more interested to find out what's the schtick with Iowa Rep. Steve "I Told Ya The Gays Are Coming" King is.
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Forgive me if I'm late to this question, but I just realized Dan Savage doesn't use caps. What's up with that? Posted by blackberry or the next e.e. cummings?

PS- Writing e.e. cummings on a post to slog made me giggle.
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@10 - Well, according to Dan's Wikipedia page, he's 35, so back in 2000, he would have been a pretty young 25.
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I third the "what's with the e.e. cummings thing, Dan?" motion.
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@ 10,

You do realize that was a hoax, right?
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Perhaps his son's legal woes have softened his views. Discovering that one of your own family members, particularly a child, has serious imperfections tends to diminish the fixation of judging other people. Whenever a local newspaper (in just about anytown in the US) publishes a story about a man having sex with a minor, the comments typically include: "I hope Bubba rapes him in prison" and "I hope someone kills him." So, finding himself with a child guilty of a crime for which some will call for his son's death may have caused him to re-think the appropriateness of his hateful words and tone.
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I too am curious about the lack of capitalization.

There *is* some capitalization in it though:

Joe Jervis
I
YouTube
I

What that means I don't know.
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Well, licking doorknobs would fall under the definition of foolish and silly, in my opinion. Preaching a sermon calling for gays and lesbians to be burned and shot fits under the definition of evil, cruel, hateful and malicious, in my opinion.

We all know my opinion isn't worth a damn, and everyone is entitled to their own. I still think it's comparing apples to oranges. The "young and foolish" of licking doorknobs isn't even in the ball park of encouraging ones flock to act violently towards gays and lesbians.

And, I hope that Dr. Owens has really changed from preaching violence and that he will respond to the letter.
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Dan finally reveals his modernist pretensions, aligned with such poetic hedonists as e.e. cummings, T.S. Eliot, Ezra Pound, and Wilfred Owen. What a disgusting man. Doesn't he know that the white man's burden is to bring light to the dark places, to educate those who don't fit society's standards using proper punctuation, meter, and rhyme? Poetry has rules goddammit!
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Dan, you're wrong here.

People can be "young" at any age. Someone can say stupid and immature and ignorant things well into their seventies, and if they somehow grow up and get perspective in their eighties, well, they still can say they were "young." Yes, yes, if you take the literal meaning of the world you can take a cheap shot and play semantics.

But this guy is 1) acknowledging that he said terrible and stupid things, 2) repudiating those hateful things, and 3) apologizing in a seemingly genuine way. Do we really need to haggle about what "young" means and whether he should have come to his senses four or twenty-four years earlier?

I hope he grants your interview, and I hope you can focus on what made him change from wholly evil to merely judgmental. Please don't get wrapped up in whether "young" ends at 20 or 30 or 40. That's the kind of label-based argument that nobody will ever win, and to the extent that some genuine knowledge and benefit could come from an interview, it won't be in that area.
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@ 20 - I think the idea is that he'd already been a pretty experience preacher at that point.
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experienced* goddamnit.

I need to get some sleep.
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I would not take seriously anybody who asked for an interview via an email typed like that. You didn't capitalize his name, your name, the title of your newspaper, or the word "I" (well, not consistently anyway in the case of "I"), but mysteriously you capitalized the names Joe Jarvis and YouTube. "Explicitly" is misspelled. The tone is sarcastic and overly casual. It reads as if it were written by some spotty-faced skater boy working for a "zine" or by someone trying to make a point, which obviously you were. Not a good way to get an interview, though.

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..i don't use caps either...
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I'm a bit confused by the lack of capitalization, too. I know Dan has that habit in casual emails, such as replies to advice inquiries, but in an interview request? Seems like that would always call for formal grammar.

But I do hope he agrees to it!
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I'm a bit confused by the lack of capitalization, too. I know Dan has that habit in casual emails, such as replies to advice inquiries, but in an interview request? Seems like that would always call for formal grammar.

But I do hope he agrees to it!
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I agree with #20. The number of years preaching doesn't determine whether it's valid to feel "young" or not. People continue to grow and change over time, even when they're "old". You mature whenever you go through a significant change, making the earlier version of yourself seem young in comparison. Perhaps change "young" to "younger" in his statement, stop splitting hairs, and pay attention to what he's really trying to say.
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OMG DAN DIDN'T CAPITALIZE PROPERLY HE LOSES ALL CREDIBILITY HE EARNED FROM YEARS OF LEWD JOKES IN A SEX ADVICE COLUMN!!!!

Seriously, people, get over yourselves.
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Modernist drivel. Gormless doggerel.
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@28: I don't think any of us are demanding that Dan use proper capitalization. We just think it's odd that in emailing this dude and trying to get an interview he types like that. Why not type in camelcase for eVeN mOrE fUn?
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@15

Au contraire, mon frère

That is the real Dan-

the whole "journalist/editor" thing,

now that is a hoax.....
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Ha ha I hope the old loony will fall for Dan's trap and agree to an interview... Lulz would be had!
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What does "... they shall surely be put to death. Their blood shall be upon them." fit under the definition of?
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Is it wrong that grammar snobs make me more mad than homicidal homophobes?
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I wonder if this change of heart comes because he is planning to travel to Canada sometime? Because I'm pretty sure Canada's hate crimes legislation would block him from crossing the border if they thought he was stumping for homo-murder.
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That's a pretty good apology, as they go. The guy clearly feels himself on the wrong side of history and wants to avoid the deserved opprobrium of the majority of Americans and Christians, so he's taken the all-too-unusual step of saying "I'm sorry, I fucked up" rather than "I'm sorry you got mad (because you're oversensitive)." Hoping the interview happens!
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Oh, come on people, isn't it obvious why the capitalization was a little off in Dan's reply?

Clearly, Dan was typing with one hand. Simple as that. :-)
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@36

When you publicly call for the murder of certain individuals of our society, and that God will bless those who do the killin', then you should be held to a higher standard for forgiveness than if you had called somebody "fuckin' gay." There's no statute of limitations on shit like that. So what if it's better than a lame-ass excuse? That's still not enough.

That fucker has blood on his hands, and it may surprise you to learn that there have actually been more than one homosexual who has been murdered by people who felt they were doing 'The Lord's' work. Saying "God has forgiven me" doesn't wash any of that away.
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Wow, it looks like the style guide police don't have anything better to do on a Saturday night.

But capitalization aside, if my son was an epic fuck-up and the shame of my community I would probably bend over backwards apologizing or do whatever it takes to mollify bloggers and reporters to make them go away and stop snooping around my family.
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@33: If I were to run across some Amalekite such as you seem to be and cut him a new grin, I'd get thrown in the clink. The law of the USA is not the law of any holy book anywhere.

Also, the Old Testament prescribes death for those who "lie with mankind, as with womenkind". Gay men lie with mankind as with mankind; they're by definition not attracted to women. The real criminals under this archaic law would be straight guys who are lonely enough to bugger each other.
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I know there is a bigger issue here, but I have to agree about the capitalization thing. I can't concentrate on content when the writer can't write. I would never, ever, EVER grant an interview to someone who says they are a journalist but who doesn't take the time to spell or punctuate correctly—or even make a small effort to do so.

There's a clip of Dan on YouTube making fun of a student who used poor grammar in a sex question submitted to him while he was speaking at a college. So he clearly cares about grammar. Maybe he's sloppy and dismissive in this email because he doesn't really care if he interviews him or not. What a waste of time.
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Dr. Owens apologized to his large church congregation today for remarks that he made in that sermon 15 years ago. Dr. Owens is 49 years old; therefore, he would have been 34 when he made the comment in his preaching. Thirty-four is young. I am a member of his church and he has not, one time proported violence against anyone. He has been pastor of our church for 8 years this coming June. He is a good man. He made a mistake, a horrible mistake, a hurtful mistake... and he has apologized. Drop it!
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He has tried to craft a sincere-sounding apology, but like so many other similar statements these days it falls short because 1) the emphasis is on making the apologizer feel better (wish for forgiveness), 2) he is still trying to undermine the legitimacy of those he originally attacked, and 3) in so doing he's giving a nod and wink to those who cheered his original diatribe and still maintain some level of support from them.

The key phrase is "I am not a believer in the gay life-style..."

Here's what you need to get, Irreverend Owens: being gay is not an article of faith, and it's not a "lifestyle." It's the way many of us were made, and our existence does not threaten your right to not suck cock. So don't threaten our lives OR try to deny our personhood.

Read his "apology" carefully again. He does not apologize to gay people. It's all about what he NOW thinks God thinks he should think.
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@42 - I'm all for forgiveness, but I sense hypocrisy here. How can we be expected to forgive someone for preaching MURDER against gays, when anyone else—politicians and celebrities, for instance—wouldn't be forgiven in church much smaller peccadillos? Religious leaders get a free pass too often: They preach murder (or rape children) while judging people's private lives. And then they apologize, and those of us being judged (or victimized) are supposed to drop it?!? The same preachy Christians who want us to forgive someone like Owens are the same people who would never quit hating on much more trivial matters, such as Obama making a verbal gaffe or Miss America getting caught pole dancing (to name two random things).

I believe in forgiveness, but when it's coming from judgey, hateful Christians, I'm just far too skeptical.
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@36 I agree. The guy's apology seemed genuine. He could have done the "no comment" thing. I think he manned up, admitted he was wrong, and publicly said so. More crazies (calling Fred Phelps, for example) should do the same. They don't, but this guy did. So, kudos to him. Engaging our opponents, rather than tar-and-feathering them, is the way to achieve progress and tolerance. The gays want tolerance. So tolerate that he doesn't like the gays, but he's OK with us being around.
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Ugh, but I just read the charges against his son, and those made me sick. He hates me for being gay, but yet his son is a thief and a rapist pedophile? WTF?
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i hayte kappitalisayshun snobz i alsew hait speling snobbs annd punkchewasian sunobs

wy do wee get so hungupp on rools peepel shud just rite howevir they whant
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I was talking to a friend of mine about this Jeff Owens, only I had a complete brainfart and couldn't remember his last name.

All I could come up with was "Jeff Bridges."

I quit.
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For continuing in the subject of ignoring the main subject of that post, what is the difference between author and writer?
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@16, I think you may be right. People change. I know that when I was young (and a total brainwashed fundy xian), I said a lot of things about gay people that I'm not proud of. I didn't know until years later that my best friend at that time--the guy who condemned the "homosexual lifestyle" with me--was gay (he was in deep deep denial).
It's easy to preach hatred when you feel that your religion demands it and when gay people are an abstraction. It's harder when it's someone you know and love. It certainly caused a crisis of faith for me (one that eventually led to atheism). The same thing might very well have happened to this pastor.
I do hope he does the interview and explains himself. I would like to see why he changed his mind.
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LOL @ "yellow-brick-road-to-Damascus moment"
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Dan, I am disappointed that you neglected to post the DVD offers from the SBBC website.

Soul Winning Made Simple. There is nothing else like is on the market. Its sale is not all about money but the souls of men being saved. Originally priced at $29.95, but it's now 83% off at the low low price of just $5.00. You might as well pick up Teaching On Character while you're at it. Make sure you read the "character" content for each disk.

HURRY! With all of this free press they're getting this offer won't last.

http://www.owenspublications.com/store/i…
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That apology was written with the guidance of an attorney.
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@3: Yes, I too am wondering about this scary Jekyll-and-Hyde, concentration camp God fundamentalists seem so enamored of.

I love you, but I hate those other people. No, I hate you and those other people. Those other people, well, I loved them before, but now I hate them--- and I love you. I hate everyone and will shove flaming swords up their nether orifices... but I might love you. Maybe.

And so on.
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Well, if he doesn't still advocate the murder of gays and lesbians, good for him, whatever.

However, does he still believe that God will send anyone who doesn't love him (or anyone who is the wrong religion, gay, or eats shrimp) to hell? The only difference is swift murder against eternal torture. Guys like this have been saying that my eternal burning and suffering of intestinal parasites is right, and true, and just. Then they can hold their hands up and disavow any responsibility for their moral beliefs.

So, he may not advocate the breaking of "Man's Law," but he's still responsible for his moral beliefs. If he thinks I deserve torture, I don't need to change my mind about him, and neither should anyone else.
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@55, I put up some info in response to your question on May 14th about copious-flow shower heads here (comment #6). Check it out if you didn't get back earlier.
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@38, I didn't say that his apology was sufficient, nor indeed that I was a homophobic shithead who wants to give someone a pass who urged his followers to commit murder. What I said was that by the depressingly low standards of public apologies, this was above par.
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Dan, I'm hoping you typed that on your cellphone. If not: dude, the shift key. Use it.
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Maybe this guy's apology and change of heart are not sincere.
Maybe he just has wised up.
Maybe he realizes that violence is not the way to destroy the wicked homosexuals.
Maybe he realizes that people like Dan and Steven Paul Boone are much more lethal to homosexuals than fundamentalists could ever be.
Maybe he realizes that the "Free Sex! Safe Sex!" crowd following Dan's advice give themselves AIDS 38X as much as normal Americans.
Maybe he realizes that the lifestyle choices of the "Safe Sex" crowd make another Gay Plague a certainty and guarantee that it will be much more lethal than AIDS.
Maybe he realizes 5 homosexuals killed each year from homophobic violence is NOTHING compared to the 15,000 deaths a year of homosexuals who gave each other AIDS.
Maybe he figures the wicked will destroy the wicked and he won't have to lift a finger.
Maybe he realizes Dan is the most potent weapon in the aresenal of anyone who wishes harm on homosexuals.

Maybe.
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@59: Actually his most potent weapon might be misinformation, something you seem to specialize in.

You do realize, of course, that heterosexuals also die from complications from AIDS? In fact, last time I checked, everybody dies from something. Unlike you I wouldn't wish the slow, agonizing death that AIDS can cause on anyone, but mortality is a fact of life.

However there are also homosexuals being born all the time, so your idea that "the wicked will destroy the wicked" doesn't actually work.

Nice try, though.
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It must be early down South.
Too early...
Recognizing the lethal consequences of behavior choices is not wishing for them.
How has sticking your head in the sand been working?
But don't get too smug, the next round in the Epidemiological of Depravity Wars may be a doozy....
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@61 Switched to unregistered comments because you can't remember your password?

Just so we're clear about "[r]ecognizing the lethal consequences of behavior choices", though, are you happy when smokers die of lung cancer? That's not a fair comparison to AIDS, of course, since smoking has been directly linked to lung cancer, whereas AIDS is not a direct result of sex.

However I'm not the one who's sticking my head in the sand. As I said, you're the one who seems to thrive on misinformation. Can you cite a reliable source for those AIDS statistics you previously quoted? I'll warn you in advance that your own imagination is not a reliable source.

You seem to think that misinformation regarding sexual behavior will make the world a better place. I hate to break this to you but it's been tried. It didn't work.
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Granted the stuff he said back then was horrible. Let's give the guy a little credit for turning around to a dramatically better, though still unacceptable, viewpoint, and for teaching a more tolerant version of his faith today. I'd like to hear what he has to say if he responds to the request for an interview. It's a step in the right direction.
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Dan's pretty into tolerating-the-Christians-but-condemning-their-lifestyle (so am I). But tolerance is about the best we can do. Some people will always believe in a sky genie, and those people will always think that the genie(s) shares their personal biases. So until the next gay-friendly deity becomes popular, religion and the gay lifestyle will be incompatible.
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@34 --- Yes.
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From the CDC:

"Consider these facts:

>AIDS has been diagnosed for more than half a million MSM. Over 300,000 MSM with AIDS have died since the beginning of the epidemic.

>MSM make up more than two thirds (68%) of all men living with HIV, even though only about 4% of men in the United States reported having sex with other men."
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What's UP with you people? Who cares about the lack of caps? (You lot obviously!!) Keep focused on the point of the post!
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@59, 61, 66: Troll harder, f@gg0t.

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