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1
Maybe the shop clerk doesn't watch American TV or look at American tabloids in the grocery checkout line.

Still, though, refusing to show someone merchandise because it's "too expensive for you" sounds like a pretty flimsy/racist-in-disguise reason.

Two questions: (a) Who is "Whoppi"? And (b) Can't Tina get married if she wants to? Surely you're not one of those marriage-is-for-procreation-and-procreation-only people...
2
A post decrying racism engages in casual ageism. People get married at 73 for the same reasons (except perhaps babymaking) that people get married for at any other age.
3

It's so embarrassing when your racism gets in the way of selling obscenely expensive stuff. You'd think this idiots would at least have photos of famous black people so they don't get caught in such humiliating scenarios. But we live in a post-racial world, right?
4
as for tina, sometimes it is good for an old person to behave like an old person.
5
*these idiots
6
i hope oprah returned holding a bunch of shopping bags and asked the woman if she remembers not helping her, and then said, "big mistake. big. huge."
7
I think if I were Oprah, I'd have stopped by a newsstand for a copy of my magazine, then gone back to the store, put it on the counter and said, "I'm just going to leave this here and go."
8
This is pretty typical for Zurich. Never underestimate the unpleasantness of the Swiss towards foreigners, particularly non-white people.
9
It's silly to be that obscenely rich and yet not know how to use money to deal with situations like this...

Oprah should have made the clerk ring up the bag with it still on the shelf, then having taken possession and examined it, returned it for a refund before leaving the register.
11
I did some research on Tina Turner. She married the man that she's been with for the last 27 years, so it makes sense.
12
@4 - wow.
13
I prefer to think that the reason was that she is an American.
14
There are only so many people in the world who can buy a handbag which costs that much. If you sell merchandise like that, not recognizing when those people enter your shop is a huge mistake.
15
@4 what a disgusting comment.
16
Apparant racism aside, Is anyone else tangentially annoyed at Oprah just for even considering the purchase of such an item?
17
@4

Sometimes it is good for a bigot to act like a bigot.
18
Damned uppity old people should know their place.
19
A £24,477 handbag is too expensive for anyone.
20
Oprah has Superpowers, her guests are comic book characters. We need expert Paul Constant to weigh in.
22
In addition to the amazing shopping story, this part of the interview stuck out with me:

"I mean the sexism thing is huge. The higher the ladder you climb it gets huge, because men are used to running things."

I've long thought that sexism is more of an issue high up on the "ladder" (I have a weird job that has me spending a lot of time with large company Boards of Directors). So, it's really interesting to hear her say that...
23
I'm know this was an awful racist incident, but I like to imagine the shopkeeper doesn't let anyone see $30K bags for moral reasons. I hope she recommended a $12 organic tote with a screenprinted turnip instead.
24
Old people can't get married? I didn't know there was a statute of limitations on love (maybe you missed the news about gay marriage and men and women who have loved each other for decades who finally CAN get married).

Charles, when Tina Turner gets married? None of your business.
25
Ah, Europe! Good thing they're too enlightened to be racist over there.

@8 Yep, this. A friend of mine married a guy from Zurich, started spending a lot of time there, and became unrecognizable.

@9 That is exactly what Oprah should have done.
26
That's pretty fucked up.

I should point out, though, that the exact same thing happened to my wife and her group of friends (all white) one time at a jewelry store.
27
Yeah, Tina Turner is an 'old' person who can still dance like a mofo on 6" heels, so.......... yeah, there's that.

Also, I don't usually advocate for people to lose their jobs, but that stoopid racist Swiss shop clerk needs to go. Period.
28
Maybe she should just buy the store.
29
Ugh. Anyone bitching about not being shown a $38,000 purse is an idiot.
30
Tina Turner is more sexy at 73 than most American women half her age. Why the hell NOT get married at 73?
31
@ 16, 29 - Anyone who has opened and maintained a school for girls in Africa (just ONE of the many charitable and humanitarian things that Oprah's done) can buy any amount of expensive purses she flippin' wants to... IMHO.

I know it's shocking, but there's a whole strata of goods and services in the world that plebes like us will probably never encounter. A basic Birkin bag from Hermes starts at around $15,000, and those things are hanging off the arms of every other rich chickita in LA.

So yeah, if Oprah wants a nice new purse, she's not going to hop on over to Ross........
32
Yep, the racism there is disgusting. But so is the fact that anyone would buy a bag costing more than $30,000.
33
Exactly what @16 said.
35
And I assume you're kidding with that last crack about Tina getting married.
36
Oprah gave 12 mil to the Smithsonian last month, she's allowed to spend 30K on a purse.
37
If I remember correctly, I believe the same thing also happened to Julia Roberts in a store in Beverly Hills.
38
The existence of a £24k handbag is probably the part of this that shocks me the most. What's it made out of? A unicorn scrotum?
39
I think I'm more shocked that a £25,000 handbag even exists.

@6 Awesome.

@12, 15, 17, 24, 34 Uptight Seattlites, you are parodies of yourselves. Keep talking, dipshits. That's why the rest of the world finds you insufferable.
40
@36, thank you! I go even further. My recently-gay-divorced nephew does not build schools in Africa nor wish to so far as I know, but I am not bothered in the least by his penchant for Hermes goodies that cost more than I earn in a decade. It delights him and hurts no one.
41
@14 - I've known some people with insanely expensive ($20,000+) handbags, and they don't look famous. They look like normal people (because, despite the extra cash, they basically are). I'm not talking about women stepping out of Bentleys and dripping with diamonds. These are people who walk around in comfortable shoes and wear jeans and t-shirts with their Birkin bags.
Even if Oprah wasn't Oprah, this store clerk was being a first class piece of shit. Barring extreme examples, you can't tell who is wealthy just by looking at them. People think they can, but they're wrong.
42
i really dislike the whole: "you are young forever" thing. it really reeks of a kind of american middle-class optimism that's appears to be meaningful but is empty at its core. the reason why americans feel it's cool for tina to marry (to behave like a young person with a future ahead of them) at old age is because it's seen as some expression of our wonderful freedoms: you go girl! i really hate this sort of thing.
43
i mean: "american middle-class optimism that appears to be meaningful..."
44
@42, maybe it's about some of the many practical aspects of marriage. If you wonder what those may be, you might ask Dan to list a few for you once he's back in the office.
45
1) American exceptionalism at it's best there, Charles: indignant that the world is not completely saturated w/ our culture.

2) Oprah could be jumping to conclusions. She might have asked the woman why she thought Oprah couldn't afford such a bag. If this were an urban legend, of course, she's buy the boutique for the sole purpose of firing that employee.

3) Your attitude towards marriage is positively Catholic. You should convert. Luckily for those who have thrown off such mental slavery, marriage, love, affection can be about anything we damn well want it to be.
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@42 - Getting married = "acting like a young person." Interesting.
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@42 You're right. She's 73! She should just wander off into the desert and die alone at this point. Life is for the young.
48
Charles, does everyone you know die at an early age? Old people get married at the drop of a hat.
49
Charles, Lots of old folks get married in those old folks homes.

Do you not remember all those ads talking about old people during the R-74-protect civil union days??
50
Sorry, I guess it was R-71

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Washington_…

51
Charles, at what age exactly does a person no longer have a future?

Is it different for men and women?

At what age do you feel single people should not be getting married?

Does gender have anything to do with this age?
52
Maybe what the seller intended was this:

This bag is atrociously expensive and not something that you, Oprah, would want to have tarnishing your image as a respectful do-gooder manager of enormous wealth.

Would you want your schools' children to see such an obscenity on your person?

53
@42 Charles, Tina Turner married a man who has been her partner for 27 years. I don't think it has anything to do with her wanting to feel young. It's about two people in love who want to recognize their lifelong relationship. It's like the older same sex couples who were lining up to get married after R-74 passed last November. Feeling young was not their primary motivation, having their relationship recognized and validated was.
54
@53 Just as likely, she and he needed to establish a marriage as part of their end of life planning.
55
Jesus Charles, sometimes you just such an awful person. Love is love no matter at what point in your life it happens. And yes, they've been together for 27 fucking years! Maybe they waited this long because her first marriage was so awful. Maybe for some other reason we don't know, but is certainly not any one's place to judge.
I mean honestly, what a shriveled cinder of heart you must have to shit on some one's joy like that.
56
Ok, Oprah and The Handbag.
She told that story to illustrate a point about racism and how even some one at her level of fame and fortune is judged by the color of her skin.
She happens to have more money than god, and she does an awful lot of good with it. But! Some people, who wouldn't dream of making assumptions as to how Oprah should live her life based on her race, are happy to tell her how she gets to spend her money.
Fuck that.
Tina wants to get married?
Tina should get married.
Oprah wants that handbag?
Oprah should have the handbag.

But I have to say, raku's suggestion that she purchase an organic cotton (or hemp was it?) tote bag with a screen print of a turnip on it instead? Made me laugh and laugh. :)
57
"I think if I were Oprah, I'd have stopped by a newsstand for a copy of my magazine"

Let's be real. Newstands in Switzerland don't offer copies of Oprah's Magazine. In the US, Oprah is so well-known she's compared to God. Oustide of the US and I guess English speaking countries, nobody has ever heard of her in Europe. She's a talk-show host ! English-speaking talk shows are not broadcast in non-English speaking countries. Whoopie Goldberg has way more worldwide fame than Oprah.
58
In re Tina:

Charles is trolling you.
59
I like to think I'm well suited to being filthy rich, but if I was and then became someone that thought it somehow normal to pay @20K on a handbag? Well I would not be worthy of that money. Oprah may do good with her money, but that doesn't make such waste any less disgusting. Fucking Americans!
60
What happened to Oprah in Switzerland was racism, I totally believe her on it.

In Europe, Switzerland is famed for being very very rich, very tidy, very pretty, pretty misogynistic and unapolegetically racist. Women were not allowed to vote until 1990 in some of the German-speaking parts of the country - Zurich is the capital of the German-speaking part.

In 2007, UN protested after a poster from a main-stream party, known as UDC in French (Center Union Party) and SVP in German (Swiss People's Party), depicted "three white sheep standing on the Swiss flag as one of them kicks a single black sheep away" with the legend "to create security". The New York Times reported about it, and you can see this offending poster there. There are other posters of the same water in the streets.

Right now, summer 2013, Switzerland is again making the news in Europe because of its just having allowing some towns (in the German-speaking part of the country) to build asylum seekers' hosting centers.

These are buildings were asylum seekers are required to live. Once inside the center, asylum seekers have a 9 am - 5 pm curfew to go, but not close to public places where children go - schools, swimming pools, sport equipement. That curfew can be revoked at will by the center manager, effectively holding asylum seekers prisonners. Check Human Rights Watch. In all interviews I've read, the motivation for that segregation was given as : "we must protect our kids". Some asylum seekers are kids, but they are segregated away all the same.

It's not surprising that the store's owner is keeping the salesperson and claiming a misunderstanding. Switzerland and Austria are indeed the most racist places in all of Europe. Rich non-white people are welcomed to visit there, but not to stay.
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@29: She's not bitching about not being shown the purse. She's bitching about the assumption the employee made when she refused to show the purse; that someone who looked like her had a limit on what she could have in the world. This is one of those times were something extravagantly shallow unearths something nasty and deep. Very much like the time I was running an administrative errand in Wheeler Hall on campus in Berkeley and a fellow frat-ish white student (and presumptuous dick) asked me when I was going to get around to cleaning up the vomit in the men's bathroom.
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@59 "Fucking Americans!"

Swiss shop. Swiss price. Swiss, Swiss, Swiss...

This is a rich person thing, not an idiosyncrasy of Americans.

@59 "Well I would not be worthy of that money."

It is an odd notion that wealth would be correlated with worth; even more so that it would be a positive relationship.
63
@61 I guess stuff like this college experience of yours happens all the time, everywhere - and I know for a fact, from friends who confided in me, that it happens in my country too. It's very shocking... and the worse part is that I'm sure it's safer for you not to escalate when you've been disrespected like that, just like women who are catcalled better not make a fuss about it. Sorry that happened to you.
64
@42 - Charles, mightn't the fact that Tina (arguably) has less "future" to look forward to than a younger woman make it that much more important, more urgent, so make it official? When the rest of your life starts to look like a bit of a short trip, ensuring that you are able to spend it with the one you love might seem to be awfully important, to say nothing of the various material, economic, and legal advantages for both parties with regards to the state.

I certainly don't see why it's necessarily tied to class, or even to optimism.

@39 - Confluence, don't you have a big steaming bowl of shit you can go somewhere and chow down on (see how non-academic that is of me? I even ended that sentence with a preposition [though I sort of padded it with a paranthetical])? The humans are trying to have a conversation.
65
"And why is Tina getting married at 73?"

I was with you, Charles, until I read that last question. Why is being 73 a bar to Ms. Turner getting married?
66
@64: We were talking about Confluence at the last unoficial Slog Happy, and the general consensus was that Confluence, who ever they are, is a deeply, deeply miserable person. I mean like a black hole of despair. They hate every thing with the exception of their childhood memory of Bert and Ernie.
Being nasty on Slog may be the only thing between Confluence and ending up head down in an oven.
67
@63: Don't feel too bad. Right after he asked me when I might get around to the vomit, I asked him when he might get around to kissing my gay black ass.
68
@67: LOL, that must have been a Kodak moment.
69
@67 Oh, good !

I was reading Casanova's memoirs a fortnight ago, and he was pretty inventive when it came to punish people (well, males) who had wronged him. I was thinking of what he would have done on such an occasion. I think it would have gone to blows, either right away, or some days later, late at night in an obscure alley, if the offender had been of superior wealth or a nobleman. He wrote about such an vengeful encounter that "if it didn't kill him it was none of my fault".

I know someone who's been on the receiving end of a racist comment in his youth and who answered back something like "right... do you know we're both alone here, that there are metal bars other there and that I could kill you and nobody would hear ?". Less of a hothead than Casanova - who took pains to always follow through on his threatening - but not as delicate as your answer.
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@29

Ugh. Anyone bitching about not being shown a $38,000 purse is an idiot.


I think the compliant is about being discriminated against, not that she wasn't shown the purse.
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@66 - Not unlikely.

Actually, that makes me feel less than stellar about what I posted. It's an article of faith for me that even the worst of us has some capacity to become ... better, and I only diminish myself when I respond to someone according to what he's feeding me as opposed to what I should allow myself to imagine he could become.

Oh, well. Goes to show that I have some distance to travel between my current character and my potential character.

Still, he's (I'm assuming he's a he; I could be wrong, but something about his flavor of puffery feels distinctly masculine) frustrating in precisely the same way Seattleblues is--that is, he posts to be contrary, without actually making arguments or engaging in conversation. But at least with SB, there's some ideological clarity and consistency driving it; with Confluence, it feels more like he just wants to be disagreeable for its own sake.
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@68, 69: He turned red and stuttered something embarrassed-sounding as he walked away quickly while I stared him down. It was very satisfying.
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@ 72 I bet it was satisfying...

@71 I don't read Confluence, but don't be too sorry for him/maybe her. I know for a fact that some people enjoy themselves immensely in being nasty to others, and positively gloat when they've succeeded in driving others into despair. Those people are not themselves the least the suicidal kind.

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