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Also, watch out for youth pastors with facial hair.
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I seem to recall that when the wave of televangelist scandals (Jim Bakker, Jimmy Swaggart, etc.) was happening in the late 80s the media often referred to them as "disgraced" ministers or whatever. But don't you have to be respected in the first place in order to be disgraced?
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When I was in grade school, I steered clear from my classmates who were future youth pastors.
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I guess we should add that to background checks:



* Have you ever been convicted of a Felony?



* Have you ever been a Youth Minister?
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Teaching, law and medicine are professions. You are a teacher, a lawyer, a doctor whether or not you happen to be employed as one at the moment.

You’re a musician whether or not you happen to have a paying gig right this moment.

If you’re a stock clerk or a police officer, you have a job. If the grocery store or police force fire you then you are no longer a stock clerk.

The question is whether being a youth pastor is more like being a doctor, a musician or a stock clerk. Is it a specialist skill, is youth-pastoring inherent in the person? Or is it a job, so that if you have the job you are one and if you don’t, you aren’t?

Sounds to me as though youth pastors are being treated like stock clerks. It’s assumed to be low-skill, a generalist position for which a lot of people are qualified.
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@5 - Thank you for explaining the obvious in 100 words or more.
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@5 because there's just not a lot to being a youth pastor? I remember all they did was organize the youth group meetings (basically mini church services), and organize a couple of activities here and there. The only real qualification is being able to convince the congregation to trust you with young kids, which I think we can all agree is a low, low bar.
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My sister is an actual ordained pastor, so I am familiar with the ordination process for mainline Protestants.

So you want to be an actual pastor? Great. You need to have lots of letters of recommendation from a variety of sources--your home congregation, your home district/synod/presbytery/etc, personal references.

You'll need a bachelor's degree first (preferably something like religion, but sociology or psychology will also do) and get admitted to a seminary. My sister's seminary did FBI background checks on their students as a matter of course. You'll do lots of classwork and practicum in your course of study, which may require further background checks. (Sister Griffin did a "student pastor" gig as a VA hospital chaplain, and had to do a lot of extra checks to get in).

In essence, if you're doing it above board, for a legit church (not an independent non-denominational Holy roller type place), there are a ton of checks to the system. Is it perfect, no, but it's better than nothing.

Want to be a youth pastor? You just show up, guitar playing skills are a plus. Youth pastors are not vetted any further than their local church and have no additional requirements for mental soundness/generally not being a douche/some sense of how the doctrine of that church works. There's a lot or trust (often too much ) at this level.
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I never met a more naive bunch of people than the people of the religion in which I was raised. They have this sense they are immune from the world's dangers because Jesus. And it leaves them and their children vulnerable to predators in their churches. I can't shake the feeling this is an intentionally designed mind control.
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sperifera @6, Hernandez @7 — exactly.

No need to imagine that journalists are reassuring us that these guys are all *former* youth pastors because religion. The simplest explanation is that journalists think (presumably with good reason) that youth pastors are analogous to stock clerks.
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@5, @10: I think Dan's point is that because of the fact that they were active youth pastors while they committed their alleged crimes, and more importantly remained youth pastors until arrest/indictment, that it's disingenuous to call them "former", as if they retired from that occupation before the pertinent events. I don't necessarily agree completely with this point of view, but I think it's worth noting.

I mean the "Central Park jogger" remained that name, and she ain't exactly been doing any jogging since then.
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My assumption was that these people were youth ministers in the past, were kicked out for the obvious reasons, but their churches did not alert authorities. So, they are 'former youth ministers' until they are caught by police.
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Hmmm... This seems like a new trend, and IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT, DAN! Since pointing out how many of these slugs get popped for child abuse, statutory rape, and sexual battery, you've obviously rubbed some nerves raw.

Keep up the good work!
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I think the difference here is that for the most part the crimes were committed while in the role of youth pastor. The "former" label can be taken to imply otherwise.

It's actually one of my pet peeves when journalists pull a job out of someone's youth to create a rags to riches story. From caddy to PGA champion! Most everyone washed dishes or ran copies at some time in their life.

But that is far from the case here.
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Why are youth pastors who are no longer youth pastors "former youth pastors", but cops who are no longer cops are "ex cops"? No one ever says "my former boyfriend" (and they definitely don't abbreviate it to "my former"). Maybe "former" is the 21st century way of saying "defrocked", to a generation that has no idea what defrocked means.
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Am I the only one who doesn't really get why the constant postings about this?





I mean, sure, there's lots of perverts in positions of trust within the chuck that take advantage of said trust. The same can be said for literally every other vocation that places individuals in a position of trust over children, from teachers to doctors to police officers.





Is the point supposed to be that there's a HIGHER incidence of sexual molestation among pprotestant youth pastors then in the general pop? If so, actual data would be more relevant. Picking and choosing individual cases shows nothing other then the fact that people I'm positions of trust over children sometimes abuse them. I could post stories about molesting teachers all the yield, and I don't think that would say anything inherent about the teaching profession.





And I say this as a committed atheist. I have no love for the church or its hypocrisy. I'm just not sure the point of it.





For those of us who a ready know that organized religoon is literally the biggest con ever perpetrated on the human race, we don't need stories about pastors to know it's mostly a sham. And for those who DO believe the Church has some moral authority, these won't change a thing. They'll just wrote them off as a few bad apples.
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@16:

For those of us who a ready know that organized religoon is literally the biggest con ever perpetrated on the human race, we don't need stories about pastors to know it's mostly a sham. And for those who DO believe the Church has some moral authority, these won't change a thing. They'll just wrote them off as a few bad apples.


I think the number of people who fall in between these two polar extremes would astonish you. Really.

The "few bad apples" crowd is an enormous swath of the middle American population, far from only being True Believers. Dan is right to call this shit out for as long as it continues to be swept under the rug by (tax-free!) mega-church authorities.
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@16: YPW exists because of RW Christian attacks on gay parents.

Dan Savage, raised a good Catholic boy, is simply pointing out the plank/beam/branch in their eye with regards to children that needs removing before they can point out the splinter/mote in the eye of homosexuals in general, and his parenting in particular.

that he can aggregate so many incidents, week after week, year after year, is pretty fucking appalling.
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So I need a background check to open milk cartons for kindergartners at lunch, but youth pastors who can take kids on overnights and people who want to purchase lethal weapons and enough bullets to wipe out hundreds don't?

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