Compare this painting by Mickalene Thomas to a similar composition by Manet. In person, Thomas’s work sparkles with rhinestones and glitter. Credit: THE ARTIST AND LEHMANN MAUPIN, NEW YORK AND HONG KONG

Compare this painting by Mickalene Thomas to a similar composition by Manet. In person, Thomas’s work sparkles with rhinestones and glitter.

Compare this painting by Mickalene Thomas to a similar composition by Manet. In person, Thomas’s work sparkles with rhinestones and glitter. THE ARTIST AND LEHMANN MAUPIN, NEW YORK AND HONG KONG

Three young women of color arrange themselves in front of Mickalene Thomas’s painting, “Le dejeuner sur l’herbe: Les trois femmes noires” at Seattle Art Museum. The massive, 10-by-24-foot mixed-media piece is Thomas’s take on a famous painting by Édouard Manet, “Le dejeuner sur l’herbe,” wherein two clothed white men, a naked white woman, and a partially clothed white woman are having a messy picnic in the woods.

A group of mostly white people watch the young women and start snapping photos. I pause to direct the women’s poses to match the three African American women in Thomas’s painting. Then I snap a photo, too. Though it was a casual moment, it occurs to me as I walk away that I didn’t explicitly ask their permission first. What right do I have to tell these women what to do?

I cringe to think how often unconscious performances of white entitlement (like what I did) may play out among museumgoers at Figuring History. And also, how many people of color will be sought out by white people to “help them understand the work.” So a special note to white people attending this show (and a note to self, too): Don’t be an entitled asshole. Don’t step into conversations you haven’t been invited into. And don’t snap pics unless you’ve been asked to.