Learning the Lessons and Moving On With Confidence

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Workmates

Some Letters Don't Require a Response (But She Got One Anyway)

We're Really Into Each Other, But There Are Issues. For Starters, Her Boyfriend.

Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up

The Ins and Outs of Male Chastity Devices

His Ex-Girlfriend Fucked Her Boss Before They Met and He's Not Okay With That

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Overfished

The Other Woman and the Memorial Service

New Savage Lovecast: Weed = Better Orgasms for Women. Yay Science!

Small-Town Gay Dude Can't Stop Hooking Up With a Not-So-Mysterious Masked Man

Dan Is Really Very Sorry He Didn't Like That Movie You Liked (But He Pretends He's Not)

He and His Wife Are in Different Worlds (Also, She Touches Her Clit Too Much—What's Up with That?)

I Rise to Speak on Behalf of the Unhappily Single or Miserably Partnered...

New Savage Lovecast: Decriminalize Sex Work!

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Parts and Parting

Three Drunken Dates: Did He Do the Right Thing?

She Found Photos and Videos of Her Boyfriend's Exes on Her Boyfriend's Phone

Letter Writer: LEAVE MICHAEL JACKSON ALONE!

Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-up

Selfish Adult Baby Risks Losing Best Thing He Ever Had

Her Husband's "Ultimate" Fantasy Is a Big Ask

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Revolution Hall

New Savage Lovecast: With Comedian Kate Willett

She Used to Enjoy Pegging Her Hot Husband — Should She Tell Him What's Wrong?

Her Boyfriend's Browser History Reveals Perplexing (But Irrelevant) Sexual Interests

One Reader of Mine Wants to Blow Another in Front of His Wife—Can I Hook Them Up?

She's Secretly Perving On the People She Serves

Sometimes The Damage Is Too Great

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Crazy Switch Asians

Woman Shocked to Discover She Was Seeing a Pedophile (Spoiler: She Wasn't Seeing a Pedophile)

New Savage Lovecast: With Andrew Rannells!

Her Proposal Prompted Him to Issue a Counterproposal

Readers and Twitterers Have Thoughts About Buying Sex Toys for Teenagers

The Touchy-Feely, Messy-Handsy, Drinky-Drunky Straight Guy From Work

Dirty Secret Discovered After Sexless Weekend

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The Sins of the Grandfather

Straight Boy Takes the Plunger

Her Son Wants Just One Thing For His Birthday...

We Heard From Many Satisfied Customers This Week...

Why Did Her Ailing Mother Save Polaroids Taken By The Man Who Sexually Abused Them Both?

He's Not Emotionally Available and They Aren't Sexually Compatible and He Doesn't Want to Talk About It and He's Not Going to Change and What Should She Dooooooo?

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Loaded Question

Cheater Shocked to Learn Spouse Also Cheating

Should She Stay or Should She Go?

I've Upset the Vegans

She Cheated... Now What?

My Future Husband Is Wonderful But His Mother Is Destroying Our Lives

Should He Tell His Tinder Date About the Drowning Risk His Kink Presents?

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Outer Limits

New Savage Lovecast: Johann Hari on the Depression Epidemic