Somewhere embedded within the 500 pages of Debt: The First 5,000 Years, David Graeber—a leading thinker behind Occupy Wall Street—almost proposes that debt is good. After all, he writes, debt is unlike barter in that debt extends a relationship rather than ending it. In that sense, all relationships are made up of an exchange of debts and credits.
It’s a provocative idea because we don’t want to think of relationships quantitatively. And yet if there is not a certain amount of equality in a relationship, it cannot be healthy. We are making quantitative calculations all the time, just not actually verbalizing them…
