We’re revisiting some of the most popular Savage Love letters of all time and organizing them in our new Best Savage Love Letters of the Day section. Today’s fan favorite comes from May, 2018. —Eds. Note
I guess I’m bi-curious. I have known since I was about nine that I like girls. As I got to high school I got caught staring at a girl’s boobs and one girl’s body and was made fun of pretty bad. I also made the mistake of telling one of my high school boyfriends about it. He didn’t like it. I regretted telling him, I felt something was wrong with me, so I never hooked up with any girls in high school. I tell you all of this to get some background and see if you can help me tell if it’s not just bicurious but bisexual.
Anyhow, in summer after my senior year met my husband & at 18 started dating. A few years into it I told him about my attraction to women and he is cool with it, but we made a decision to be monogamous, so no acting on it. We can watch porn together, we can check out girls together and make fun of each other for our preferences in women.