After 10 years, I got pregnant. What a perfect time to tell me you never wanted children. You pretended I wasn't pregnant and that I didn't even exist—except for the few friends you lied to, telling them I poked a hole in the condom to get pregnant on purpose. Why would I want to purposely have a child with someone who beat the crap out of me, blamed me for the violence, and dared me to call the police? I can barely afford to replace all the things you stole when you moved out and threatened to go "somewhere that doesn't collect child support." Classy. Please thank the lesbian you were cheating with for the genital warts I got while pregnant. Considering the lies, cheating, hitting, abandonment, and denial, don't you think you should give relationships a break? You clearly have no idea how much you truly hate women.