I wanted to personally thank you for marrying me, knocking me up, beating me while I was pregnant, then cheating on me for three years. You truly are everything I don’t want our son to be. Thanks for bouncing and having him not know you. Yes, we are fine without you, and yes, he’s better off without you. And for the record: You weren’t any good, your dick was small, and you smelled like a pervert. recommended

74 replies on “I, Anonymous”

  1. These are, for the most part all great comments. Reading these has made me come to one conclusion. Never will I make a comment that may discourage someone from opening up about this sort of thing in the future. Imagine the abused person who has not yet opened up about it. I wouldn’t want to push them back into hiding by a careless comment.

  3. #49, she did leave eventually manage to leave him though I don’t know what caused her to make that decision. I’m saying it takes time, and isn’t as easy for some people as it is for others.

    Of course it’s not right for anyone to subject their kids to violence. But not everyone comes from the same background, has the same emotional or financial stability, support etc…to make the choices that seem so obvious to those of us lucky enough to not have their problems, and that dismissing this poor woman as a “dumb bitch” who won’t take responsibility for her life is flat out heartless, especially given the fact that she HAS done so, it’s just taken her a while.

  6. #53: She did not “eventually manage to leave him”, she clearly stated that he ditched her. However, this isn’t even the issue. It’s her immature and petty attitude about the situation. “Your dick was small”? I mean, really? Yeah, poor her, whatever. The fact is, she also married him, she also allowed herself to get pregnant, and she also stayed in the relationship.

    For the record, I’ve been in a violent abusive relationship, and yes it was very difficult to stand up for myself, but I don’t hear myself bitching about it like the world should feel sorry for me. It’s annoying when people act this way, and trying to sympathize just encourages their self-pitying behavior.

  7. no no no she didn’t marry him. He married her ! Can’t you read? He married her, then he got her pregnant (er … knocked her up). What was she to do? It’s like identity theft, you don’t know these things have happened until it’s too late.

    You’re talking about a woman who says “knocked up” for pregnant and “bounced” for divorced … so it’s not only fake but fake by a retarded broad.

    Credit where it’s due: “you smell like a perv” is pretty pro.

  9. Let me offer the first objective, non-insulting view:

    A woman not leaving an abusive relationship is a COMMON psychological response based on certain trends in the woman’s life, background, financial reasons and quite a few other factors.

    MANY domestic abuse victims don’t leave their situation or they may actually try to several times, either being found and terrorized, but believing promises of “change” while they are in a mentally unstable mindset. The longer they stay, whether it is out of obligations they feel they have, a way of life that feels stable/the same, or whatever, it affects their psyche even more- self esteem drops, depression sets in, eating disorders can set in and many other unhealthy situations can occur. This makes it harder to leave.

    There have been hundreds of REPORTED cases and estimated thousands of unreported cases of a partner hunting down, terrorizing and punishing their wife, girlfriend, etc. There have been cases of murder.

    The psychology behind this is pretty in depth and I suggest you read up on it, should it truly interest you. Somehow I doubt that it does and the insults are just to compare the size of your e-penises.

    Gotta hand it to you, though: “perv smell” was indeed funny. I guess it’s also funny when a woman with a warped mind from abuse who can’t see the obvious solution you see comes into a clinic with severe burns and a stab wound because she tried to leave. Awesome.

    Source: Many textbooks and clinical psych books; Doctoral Forensic Psych major.

  12. This should be titled “Expressing regret over 3 years later.” The fact is, this lady picked a doozy… Way to go, lady. You are the MVP.

  16. Wow way to go to all the supremely superior insta-geniuses for ruining an otherwise very funny post that can celebrate a woman getting out of an inhumane situation. So what’s your first reaction? To treat her inhumanely. Interesting, that by default you side with her abuser, and tell her to quit whining. What perfect, never-done-wrong winners you are.

    monkwild, I <3 you. You are one of the few intelligent people left on the Internet.

  17. Oh, and by the way, if it were some MAN posting about getting rid of his abusive, harpy wife, you would be cheering him on, instead of lecturing he stop whining and take responsibility.

    A bunch of self righteous hypocrites, you are.

  18. It’s funny how some people assume that anyone who criticizes a “victim” has never been a victim themselves, yet most of these same people have never been in the same situation either.

    Look, just because you’ve had shit happen to you doesn’t mean you’re exempt from personal responsibility, and if you’re going to put your complaint up for all to see, don’t expect everyone to just pat you on the back.

  19. #70, no shit! Remember Trent Moorman’s fucking full-page article whining about how some girlfriend was mean to him? And 90% of the men who responded to him said something like, “Oh, Trent, I feel your pain. Bitches are so mean!!!!” And somehow no one accused him of whining or being a dumb bitch (except for me about 20 times on that post)? What the fuck is wrong with Seattle guys that they are so overtly hypocritical?

  20. @ 70, 72:

    People are hypocrites all over. It’s not limited by sex or geography.

    The guy here beat his woman and cheated on her. If that was the limit of her venting, she probably would have gotten more support here. However, she also appears to blame this guy for her getting married and pregnant, things in which she presumably played an active role. This part of why both women and men have given her a hard time.

    Also, it is possible to be critical of her without taking his side.

  21. My analysis is that the people doing the Hating are the same people, that are thinking this while reading.
    ” how could this asshole have ever gotten this girl to fall for him? I am such a nice guy, with a good job, I treat women with respect, and I can’t get anywhere with the ladies, and this stupid cunt is giving it up for an asshole, whe she could have had a man like me, you studip fuckin bitch I hate you for picking him and not me”

    All you haters are losers that cant get laid, even if you had a million bucks in a whore house

  23. You take no responsibility at all for your choices. You had no idea he was abusive before you were knocked-up and married to him? Either you were having unprotected sex way too soon, or you liked the fact that he was supporting you/keeping you from being alone with yourself.

    For goodness sake, it’s called birth control, use it!

  24. Why is it that most of the responses on here are lecturing Anonymous on her responsibility and ignoring the responsibility of her abusive ex partner. Both parents are responsible for the safety and well being of the child. It is wrong to beat your partner. Why isn’t there more hate directed at abusive jerks and less at their victims?

    Sure, no kid deserves to be born into a situation like that. Sure, she chose to be with her abusive husband. But seriously, abusers are charming at first. We don’t know this woman’s whole story. Let’s assume that she was doing the best she could under extremely trying circumstances. Cutting up the mother does nothing to help the child. Why can’t we care about both of them? Why can’t we put the blame where it belongs: on the abuser?

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