The Spalding Gray fans in the house know who they are. And since this film is really just for Spalding Gray fans, let’s dispense with the throat clearing and exposition. (For those of you who aren’t already fans of Gray, the
storyteller who basically invented the solo show and from whose forehead sprang a fully formed Mike Daisey: Peep Swimming to Cambodia. Or just read it. The writing—about Gray’s experience filming The Killing Fields in Thailand surrounded by hedonistic actors, prostitutes, lush jungles, and the world’s strongest, most paranoid-making marijuana—is fantastic, some of the best memoir writing of the 20th century. Done? Presto, you’re a Spalding Gray fan. Now please enjoy the rest of this review.)
And Everything Is Going Fine, assembled by director Steven Soderbergh, isn’t a Gray monologue. It’s a compilation—of the “rarities and B-sides” variety. Soderbergh has simply cut up and rearranged snippets of Gray monologues throughout his career. (Watching his haircut change over the years is half the fun/horror. Whoever suggested he let his hair grow into an oversize, bushy pageboy during the 1990s should be slapped.) Gray tells a few hitherto-unreleased stories, mostly about his upbringing: his mother’s nervous breakdown, his father incompetently telling Spalding about the birds and the bees on a golf course, his first acting gigs.
Anyone looking for a startling, illuminating new Gray monologue will be disappointed. And anyone looking for even a smidgen of insight into Gray’s suicide will be frustrated. And Everything Is Going Fine is a compilation of footnotes on a life and a career—footnotes that the faithful will devour ravenously. But nobody else will. ![]()

‘But nobody else will’…
I DONT agree with that. First you tell people how to become a fan and then you talk about th ‘faithful’. And there is a good reason that suicide is left out – do your research. See what Soderbergh and Russo write about that.
There are way over 40 very positive reviews, many by people unaware of Spalding before.
signed:
big time ‘faithful’
jb
webmanager for Estate of Spalding Gray
http://www.spaldinggray.com/Fine
There’s a vast amount of material in this movie about his suicide, and a great deal of insight into his thinking on the topic. How could anyone have missed it? The movie was clearly edited specifically to highlight it! The topic comes up with a few minutes! And comes up again and again and again. Then, finally, movingly, his sudden physical deterioration just when the arrival of his children gives him a new outlook – well, I wonder if you saw the movie.