It’s a frequent lament among filmgoers older than 50: “Hollywood doesn’t make movies for adults anymore,” except it isn’t true. The movies get made, but studios direct the bulk of their distribution and marketing funds elsewhere. This year alone saw the release of I’ll See You in My Dreams, Ricki and the Flash, and Grandma. Now we have Barcelona-born director Isabel Coixet’s Learning to Drive which reunites her with Elegy costars Patricia Clarkson and Ben Kingsley…