My fiancรฉ has a foot fetish, and he hates it. Can you tell him itโ€™s harmless and immutable?

Harmless! Immutable! Also, weโ€™re living in the golden age of foot-fetishist representationโ€”from the conniving, murderous, unctuous Ser Larys Strong on HBOโ€™s House of the Dragon (prestige television!) to the sweet, goofy, traumatized Jimmy on TLCโ€™s MILF Manorย (trash television!), guys with a thing for feet are suddenly all over our screens. And as kinks go, there are farโ€ฆ well, I donโ€™t want to say worse fetishes. Letโ€™s just say there are fetishes that are far harder to explain, far riskier to attempt, and that a vanilla partner is far less likely to happily indulge you in.


Would you contact an ex after a year to ask how they are?

Depends on…

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