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1
Bad analogy. You CAN turn Jews into Christians with indoctrination.
2
Dear NPR: Please go fuck yourself.

I have a gay brother and sister and 50 years later, they're still precisely the same people they were as small children.

(At 4, my sister announced, "When I grow up I'm going to be a boy." And picked a fight with me when I tried to tell her she'd grow up to be a woman.)

In essence, she was right, and I was wrong (so much for my gaydar at 8.)
3
I heard part of this story the other day. While they ultimately concluded the report saying that ex-gay treatment doesn't work, they were far too accommodating to an absurd position in a misguided attempt at balance.
4
The only way to cure Christians is with a frontal lobotomy.
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@1: I realize the analogy isn't perfect. But Jews *can* become Christians, as you point out. Still, NPR would never do a report on how *some ex-Jews* believe that baptism saved them from the Jewish lifestyle. And not because there aren't self-hating ex-Jews out there. There are.

But let's imagine that NPR does that report. How long would it be before mobs of angry people were burning their tote bags outside NPR HQ? Thirty minutes? Fifteen? Before the report was over?
6
The one glaring thing I noticed when I heard the story the other morning was that the "now straight" man talked a bit about how he no longer feels a sexual attraction to men having instead brotherly feelings towards men..... not once in the entire piece did he ever say he was now attracted to women.
Why?
Probably because he is still fucking gay, and likely is so traumatized by the "therapy" that sex with anyone is unappealing.
7
I'm happy to see this called out (LOL'd @5), but disturbed at the stereotyping of NPR listeners as tote-bag fanatics. I have always eschewed the bags, the mugs, and even the program guides. So there.

And it could be worse, e.g. a sloppy beejay for christianity by Barbara Bradley Hagerty.
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@6 I noticed that too! He talked about how much his relationship with men had changed, but didn't ever mention whether his relationship with women changed. You do not get to claim heterosexuality just by not being gay... you have to be actually sexually attracted to the opposite sex.

It sounded like a mental scarification of his sexuality, not a conversion to liking ladyparts.
10
Didn't NPR et al learn this lesson after pretending there were still two legitimate sides to the climate change "debate" years after the two central questions were settled?
11
Fuckin' NPR is so fuckin' biased towards gay fuckin' liberals that they didn't just outright fuckin' say that gays are just selfish people who fuckin' hate God
12
Fuck you all. I'm straight, and I'm sure with the right indoctrination I'd be happily sleeping with guys till the cows come home. Are you other straights out there SO SECURE in your own sexuality that you think you couldn't be indoctrinated into a gay lifestyle?
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@12 I think I could be "indoctrinated" out of liking pizza with the right electroshock therapy. That doesn't mean it's a good idea to do so.

I think I'll go rent A Clockwork Orange.
14
I'm not suprised. Look at what's going on in Congress with everything on the chopping block because the Dems don't have the spine to make rich people/companies pay a teensy bit more in taxes. Where does NPR get a bunch of its funding? NPR is afraid that if they are too bold in speaking the truth, they will be defunded.

Someone oughta tell them, if they're going to be defunded, it will happen anyway, and better to go out like a lion than like a lamb, or something to that effect.
15
This is why I have a hard time getting excited when the Repugs want to defund NPR. Small loss.
16
I can't stand NPR anymore for this exact reason. All the faux "journalistic balance" has made me hurl far too many good radios out the window.

FUCK YOU, NPR.
17
Complaint made. I can't support the NPR hate though, out of urban areas there just aren't many options, and overall they do a good job most of the time.
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And even with all this supposed balance, it'll still be considered a liberal news source sucking tax money from honest Americans. It's not like this is going to change any minds.
19
Danny,

do you know what conversion therapy Kerry Pacer used?

Remember Kerry?

The Advocate Homosexual of the Year a few years back?

Georgia high school student standing up for the rights of The Gay?

The Lesbian who inspired Gays EVERYWHERE with her courage?

Lesbian of the Year who was shacking up with her boyfriend and pumping out babies a year later?

What was her conversion therapy?
20
Same here, #17. That was a lousy piece of reporting, but NPR is usually better than the alternatives.
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@9: "I noticed that too! He talked about how much his relationship with men had changed, but didn't ever mention whether his relationship with women changed. You do not get to claim heterosexuality just by not being gay... you have to be actually sexually attracted to the opposite sex."

They think chastity is a "cure".
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@21, it is, in their eyes, of course--one's "cross to bear" and all that. As long as Jeebus doesn't have to buy the mega-packs of Kleenex at Costco anymore, and his hiccups from nonstop sobbing finally go away.
23
Fuck NPR.
24
The point of Journalism is to tell the story without bias and to take stock of the current situation. As it stands, the APA says convertion therapy is a bad idea and two experiences show one case of trauma and one case of clearly minimal efficacy. NPR showed the argument for CT is weak, even coming from proponent. I don't think NPR gave too much credulity to the proponents. Also, Dan, you should link to the source article as well as the Equality Matters article so readers can make up their minds about the Grave Injustice.
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@13 (Matty) Are you really comparing homosexuality to a love of pizza?
26
Love NPR. Hated this piece. Thanks for flagging this, Dan. I missed the report, but I found it online and wrote a letter objecting to it. I suggest others do too. The link is www.npr.org then at the bottom, click on "Contact Us". There's power in numbers people!
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@24, you've used a couple of interesting and revealing phrases there, yeti.

For example, "minimal efficacy" implies that the intended results of conversion therapy are, in some sense, desirable. To say that the argument for conversion therapy is "weak" implies that there is an argument to be made for it at all.

The Grave Injustice, aside from the atrocity of conversion therapy itself, is that stories like this reinforce the misguided idea that CT is merely "ineffective" and not unspeakably cruel and wrong headed.
29
NPR did a better job of covering this 5 years ago (Straight to Jesus): http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story…
30
Sorry NPR- but until I see a redaction, an apology, and an admonition of how ridiculous this article was I will as of now be boycotting you. Stop trying to create two equal sides to every argument- SOMETIMES THERE AREN'T.

Ugh. I'm so sick of this crap it's disgusting.
31
It's called Podcasts, and I listen to many many more than NPR produces, so when they go down and out with a warm farty trickle, I won't miss them. It's got me to reading newspapers again, and awesome and terrible blogs for my news. No longer Morning Edition or the self-congratulatory All Things Considered.
32
Where in this whole discussion is even the mention of bisexuals? The whole argument collapses if the reality that at least some people are bisexual is added into the mix.

In a world where "suck one dick and you're gay" would cause some bisexual men to assume a gay identity, it's certainly possible for a bisexual, even someone who skews predominantly toward homosexual attraction, to change some habitual behaviors and form healthy and outwardly heterosexual relations with someone of the opposite sex. That doesn't make them straight, and it doesn't mean they were gay in the first place.

Of course, it would just shift the ex-gay movement toward convincing self-loathing gays that they are bisexual and can change, but it would certainly take the wind out of "this one person (I know he's around here, let me see if I can find him, trust me he's here somewhere) changed, therefore everyone can change, therefore gay people should have no rights whatsoever" idea.

And it would have the added benefit of being, you know, true.
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@32: Yes, but most of those people probably wouldn't need the ex-gay movement: if a bi person really wanted to think they're straight, they could do it themselves just by focusing on the opposite sex.

But you know, the ex-gays do seem to think that everyone is bi, sort of. And the movement is sort of about convincing gays that they're bi and can change, if you think about it. And they do say that only some people can really get "cured" whereas others have to struggle more, because it's what god wants or some such nonsense.
34
Because pretending something doesn't exist is surely the best way to get rid of the problem, right? Surely the best way for NPR to help rid us of CT, The Tea Party, and right-wing terrorists, is to never, ever, ever do any reporting on them and their craven, borderline psychotic justifications? Even when everything they say is so clearly without merit and disconnected from reality?

You people should be ashamed of yourselves for being so cowardly you can't even listen to the mumbling justifications of con artists and lunatics. Know your enemies, because they are out there. Dan, as a journalist, I'm surprised that in your rush to righteous indignation this one went so clearly over your head.
35
I have blue eyes, I have never wanted to have blue eyes as my religion tells me "blue eyed devils" are condemned to Hell. Would this conversion therapy cure my blue eyed-ness? Thanks and I'll take my answer off the air.

What is funny is that NPR, like CBS, NBC and ABC before them thinks this 'even-handed' bullshit will pare them from the horrors of being labeled as 'liberal media'
36
I heard this article on NPR yesterday and didn't find anything appalling about it. It was simply a look into what conversion therapy consists of and what the people who go through it are supposedly experiencing. It wasn't meant to be a muckraking piece meant to destroy the idea of it. That's not really what journalism is supposed to do.

All other articles I have seen on this subject have always exclusively featured people who were burned by the programs and are designed to be wholly negative about the entire subject. But that doesn't cover the viewpoints of all the people who are involved, and there are people who do come through these programs getting what they hope for, even if it isn't what most of us would regard as healthy.
37
The fake outrage directed at NPR is high comedy. They (NPR) are hardly a proponent of it, hell, the blogger explicitly states that the APA doesn't support it. Why the willful obtuseness, Dan?
38
Immersion therapy with the bible turned me into an Atheist.
39
I wonder, are there any organizations that promote passing - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passing_(ra…) - and offer services to help clients overcome unwanted racial identities?
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@34, 36, 37: You're missing the point, which is that NPR presented the issue as if it were an actual controversy with two sides, ignoring, you know, the actual facts on the subject. While journalists may regularly do this in an attempt to feel "balanced," and not have to go to the trouble of doing actual research, that doesn't make it real journalism and that doesn't make it right.

If you report on people who believe or support harmful falsehoods like conversion therapy, you have a duty to your readers to make it very clear what the actual facts are and which side of the controversy is correct. NPR failed at this basic journalistic duty.
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One question I often asked myself is if anyone considered the possibility that both ideas might be right, i.e. that, for some people (call them 'pseudogays') conversion therapy might work, whereas for others (call them 'full gays') it wouldn't. This, because, it seems to me, in the large realm of human psychological oddities and ailments, it is not impossible to imagine that there could be such a thing as the wrong belief that one is gay, i.e., that there could be straight men that for some reason (say, some trauma), do think that they are gay, when that is in fact not true.

Just as the proverbial crazy guys who thought they were Napoleon don't mean that there wasn't a true Napoleon, it doesn't seem to me that a certain amount of cases of real conversion implies that all gays can be converted, but only that there may be some people living under the mistaken impression that they are gay, when in fact they are straight.

What do you guys think?
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41

very good point.
Slog won't entertain it,
however,
as it doesn't conform to their prejudices and bigotries......
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@41: There actually is a fairly common form of OCD in which straight people suffer from the compulsive thought that they might be gay. I doubt "conversion therapy," which is not a legitimate form of therapy, would be helpful for that kind of mental illness or delusional thought, or for anything else for that matter. Medication and normal cognitive therapy can be effective in treating OCD or delusions though.
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Mr Ank - And even if CT did "work" for your "pseudogays", I rather expect that the ill done by the CT would outweigh any benefit of being freed from the "wrong" orientation.

(I'm amazed I was able to type something so close to neutral on this vile subject without cramping.)
45
While reading the article, I came across this rather... unusual statement.

"Research has demonstrated that when news outlets present both sides of a political issue without commenting on which side is correct, readers tend to feel powerless to determine which position is actually the right one."

In response, i'd like to state that while I agree completely with the writer's position on how the debate over ex-gay therapy is misrepresented, I disagree with this weird claim about how news organizations are responsible for telling people which side of a debate is correct. Pointing out, for example, that proponents of ex-gay therapy have been using junk science to justify their claims is different from simply telling viewers and readers "which side is correct" on "a political issue". Call me really nitpicky if you want, but these sweeping claims just bother me. The article was really good until I read this part and... it just made me sad. Also, what research has shown this?
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@45: Did you follow the link from the Equality Matters article? It describes a research experiment done at OSU. And you're right, they should have written "factual issue."

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